i am 24 years old and i love her very much
2006-10-22 04:08:54 · 23 answers · asked by abc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, take good care of her and be there for her. Is there a treatment or a cure that can help her? your question is a little vague. At the moment, don't worry about the future, just enjoy the time that you have with her now.
2006-10-22 04:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by Urchin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is she ill from? Is it a chronic thing that sometimes recurs and sometimes remits? Perhaps she needs hope and encouragement to grow stronger.
Did you see on one of the morning shows this week, perhaps Wednesday, about a young lady who had bone cancer when she was little, and she had a positive outlook, and took chemo and survived. Then when she later developed leukemia, she is refusing chemo, but is taking vitamins, remaining active in the community, has faith in God, has lots of friends and support, she is in great pain...but doing very well. On television, only looking directly into her eyes and watching her movements could you see she was ill and in pain. The rest of her was like a sun shining. Positivity really truly improves things and it does not have to be real at first, could just be trying to be positive and it will help.
2006-10-22 11:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, you need to speak to your girlfriend, she needs to stop thinking so negatively, let her get some medical attention and hear what the doctors have to say about it. If she dies, well you move on, that's life, a part of living is dieing.
2006-10-22 11:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is, when someone you love dies or goes away or anything, you really need to embrace that its happened, people die, its a fact, but dont dwell on that, instead of that, just let that person know that you love them and always will.
people leave this world and we cant follow, it sucks, but the sun doesnt' really go down, the world just turns a little, but you always see light again, see what im talking about?
2006-10-22 11:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by colin g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...tough question. First let me say I hope that a miracle happens and she will be OK. However, shoudl the time come you need to let go. Then dont let the grief overwhelm you. Let it runs it's course if your girlfriend loves you as much as you love her she will want you to go on in time. You will live and yes love again it will take time but I am sure that if you take it one day at a time you will be OK. Bless ya!
2006-10-22 11:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by newtooocala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why is she dying? cancer? or something else? find out what her medical condition is and help her take control of it.. be her advocate at the doctor's office and the hospital..... take care of her... maybe she won't die if you do these things.....
if you love her very much...then concentrate on making sure she lives.......
and then if/when she does die you will know you did all you could... and then you can slowly start to heal.... i agree with the person who responded who said not to jump into another relationship right away.....
2006-10-22 11:14:29 · answer #6 · answered by myheartisjames 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you love her very much maybe you should get her to a doctor and try and get her healthy first, unless of course you want her to die, how old is she anyways? are you dating some 90 year old woman or something?
2006-10-22 11:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i think if she dies then you will hurt but gradually you will move on..give yourself time don't jump into another relationship and try to make her happy before she passes that is if she does pray she doesnt die
2006-10-22 11:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lexi_Corp213 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
be there for her hun dont leave just stay there and see what happenes it depends on her illness she has not all illiness can kill u if you would like to talk about this illness she has and want to tell me about the symptons shes having so i can help you out with telling you about if shes gonna die from it or not then u may im me at bballjs09@yahoo.com or u can email me at bballjs09@yahoo.com and i will help you out i know alot about diseases and illness so just email me or im me and i will help you out with the problem you are having i hope i can help you out
2006-10-22 11:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by jenna s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love her the best that you can now. Grieve for a while if she dies. Start over later.
2006-10-22 11:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by Jack S. Buy more ammo! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋