Hey, I'm a guy, and I've had a crush on this girl for a while. She's bisexual, but she says that she prefers women and doesn't really find men attractive. We're affectionate with each other, but we're not really romantic, and I can't tell if she like me or not. What do I do?
2006-10-22 04:03:47 · 14 answers · asked by johnnydiedie24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well just make sure ur one of the very few guys she'll like.Make her realize ur not like other guys and u really really like her.I know from experience cuz my bf is bi-sexual and i love him to death and he loves me and if u love sum 1 then just respcet there orientation.He goes more for guys,but he says im soo gorgeous and love him like no other girl has before,and he much rather be with me than anyone,and sadly im the only girl that turns him on.lol.But yea u see i've proven to him that im not like other girls he's been with so i understand ur situation completely.Just prove it to her that u like her if u like her that much.My boyfriend and i are happy together and he doesnt care much for guys now.Amazing isnt it?lol.
2006-10-22 06:10:32 · answer #1 · answered by ramlover_92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of bisexual women actually prefer women to men, which is okay. She may be affectionate with you, but you have to ask yourself a question.
1) Is her personality affectionate?
If it is, you have to kind of figure it out for yourself. Try accepting the fact that she likes women, and maybe once or twice ask her out on a date and see what her reaction is. If she's kind of like, "Oh, sure." then you know that she maybe doesn't find you attractive in that kind of way, or that she has reserved feelings.
Just follow what you think you should do.
2006-10-22 04:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by lie4me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard, and its not easy to get over someone. Try to look at all the negative problems to guy. (since were talking in 3rd person) Tell girls friend how girl feels is shes really a friend shell understand and help girl move on.(:
2016-03-28 03:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend once questioned his sexuality before we dated, and it took me and him to sit down and think about if he truly prefers men or women, and he realized that he truly prefered women, and we started going out. She IS bisexual, which means she isn't a lesbian, so you have a chance. Just talk to her about how you feel. She says she doesn't find men that attractive, but it might just mean that she hasn't found the right man to be attracted to, and it might just be you. :) I hope everything works out.
2006-10-22 04:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by vicki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy u have a prob u are being pulled inbetweeen this girl u like, and it makes matters worse that she is a Bi, srry but that aint cool, your not the prob the girl is, well both of the girls are. i think u should just let her be and go about her business and if u are a good lookin' boy u will find a straight girl that will like u just keep ur head up, there someone for everyone out there--and trust me that girl is not for u.
good luck
2006-10-22 04:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your best option with this particular girl, might be to just remain friends. If she's already expressed to you that she prefers girls, then she may be trying to tell you that she's not interested. I would try to find a girl who's more into boys, particularly you. I hope that helps! Good luck!
2006-10-22 04:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by mandyriffic24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh geesh....
Resign yourself to being the other woman...or move on...
Yes I said other woman..... you sound a little whiney... would you care for some cheese with that whine?
Sexuality is very complicated... you can't make anyone love you or change sexual preference. That would be like making bill clinton faithful...ain't gonna happen.
2006-10-22 04:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like she will date men if she finds one that she likes. just make sure that she's loyal to you and won't miss being with a women while with you.
try to get to know her before expecting anything romantic. she could be a good friend for now and better it will blossom into romance later.
2006-10-22 08:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to be bisexual. When i was with my girlfriends then i was with them completely. heart and soul and i didnt give a d**** about men. but then later on i started dating both and i got hurt really bad and then i met my husband. at one point in a man or womans life they have to decide what road they want to take, a simple life or a destructive life. me, i settled down, i dovote myself only to my husband. anyhow. meaning if she wants a man she will let you know, and she wont settle down until she decides. so either you let her have her cake and eat it to or you leave and find another.
2006-10-22 04:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by _123456_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know what you can do sorry!!!! but let me tell you this,it sounds like she is not into you like you are to her,she might think of you as a really cool (girl) friend...its a question you should ask her
2006-10-22 04:06:14 · answer #10 · answered by QUEEN K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋