My mom thinks i am being a b**** to him ,but she does'nt understand!He is always all over me and i can't take it.Don't get me wrong i really like him ,but he is just too clingy!So what should i do?
2006-10-22 04:01:58 · 18 answers · asked by Ditter Bug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him that a.s.a.p. while you're feeling this way. cuz it will get harder to do the longer you wait. especially if he does something nice for you and then you will feel too guilty to tell him. seize the moment sister!
2006-10-22 04:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may indeed not understand what is going on, but your mother is right that you shouldn't be a "b****" toward this guy. Maybe he can't help the way he is.
Having said that, you certainly don't have to put up with it, but that is never an excuse to be rude to someone. You need to come right out and tell him he's being too clingy for you and that the relationship cannot continue in this direction.
Leave the ball in his court and see if he can change. If he can't, or won't, then end things. Being rude to the guy will only deepen his resolve to stay "the victim", which he seems to be getting lots of mileage from. It reflects badly on you too, as you can see by your mother's reaction.
2006-10-22 04:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you do not have a automobile yet, save money with the activity which you have and purchase a automobile so as which you would be able to pass see him all the cases which you relatively prefer. in case you have already got a automobile then you definitely shouldn't subject and you ought to locate time to pass see him. Now which you're in summer season holiday from college is the suited time to be whenever you men are unfastened.
2016-11-24 22:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to be honest. Don't ignore it. It will only make you resent him and possibly lash out at him later. You could talk to him and tell him that he needs to ease up a bit, but beware that if this is how he is, it may be hard for him to change.
2006-10-22 04:06:53 · answer #4 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him and tell him that you'd like to do things by yourself or you need to spend a little time with friends too. But of course assure him that you love being with him but thats just how your lifestyle is =)
2006-10-22 04:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by red_hac 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop being a clingy bastard. if that doesnt work, dump him. It will either straighten him out or mess him up for the next girl.
2006-10-22 15:42:22 · answer #6 · answered by Rovot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u aint his motha so either give u breathin room or u will have to let him go. tell him u dont like the whole 24/7 all over u crap n he needs to back off some
2006-10-22 04:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because you're a couple doesn't mean you have to do everything and be everywhere together. you both need room to grow as individuals. otherwise, you might wake up one day and realize that you lost your self identity and won't know what hit you.
2006-10-22 06:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by Nikai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to talk to this guy and tell him that he is smothering you, and do it with out your mom. explain to him you like him alot but that you don't like the fact that is all over you, and that this beginning to put a strain on your relationship. and if he runs to your mom and tells her what you said, then i would dump him. and i think that your mother needs to stay out of it!!
2006-10-22 04:05:47 · answer #9 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds a bit like he's insecure and maybe even jealous... you are sooo right to not want that kind of relationship. Its suffocating and unhealthy.
2006-10-22 04:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by tampico 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋