the situation is like this, a married man approached a woman with an arrangement that they do need a complete relationship (body sharing as well)...and planning to get divorced once resources (financial matters) is available...after first meeting(body shared)...communication bet the two slowed down....what can u say?
2006-10-22 03:35:35 · 27 answers · asked by ziledz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like this person got sucked in to me...he wanted to sample the goods before he bought into it...but honestly...he was probably only interested in getting her into the sack..once he got the free sample he changed his mind...which brings truth to that old adage.."why buy the cow when the milks free"...any woman that gets offered something like that needs to really THINK things thru...tell the next guy to call you WHEN he is single and not before because I bet his wife has absolutely no idea that they are even having trouble let alone heading for divorce.
2006-10-22 03:45:02 · answer #1 · answered by .*^+Holly+^*. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a big liar! All he wants is free sex. Isn't it obvious? The promise about "being single" is as old as the dirt he is throwing at her. These financial arrangements will never materialize. He will use her and then throw her away. Hope this woman has sense enough to see this or else she is in for a whole lot of misery. How does this guys wife feel about this sordid affair? Bet you she doesn't even have a clue. This guy is a poster boy for slime of the century. Low down creep he is too!
2006-10-22 10:54:10 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am currently in a relationship with a man and I am the one who is married. I am seperated and working on getting a divorce, and as soon I get the funds to go through with it, it will be done. Divorces are expensive. I think that it depends on the situation in which the man is living. Does he still live with the wife? Does he see her on a daily basis? It all goes with your own judgement.
2006-10-22 10:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by sherbear1983 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got what he wanted. He told a great lie about going to divorce his wife, but of course he couldn't do that before he had sex with her because of money. He talked her into sex and then lost interest.
When will women learn that married men are not going to divorce their wives and destroy their families for another woman? These men will lie and tell all kinds of stories to make the other woman feel sorry for them, but all they really want is sex. When they get it they don't need the other woman any more.
2006-10-22 10:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a woman is stupid enough to fall for that line she deserves what she gets. That one is as old as the hills. That's the same line my ex fed his girlfriend while they were having an affair. After stringing her along for 8 months - all the while telling her we weren't sleeping together anymore ( gigantic lie), he was going to leave me soon, etc. - he told her he needed a break to think about things. The problem was he didn't get time to think because I kicked his lying butt to the curb as soon as I found out about the fling. She waited around for him for more than two years and he never did marry her. In fact - he cheated on her as well. The point of the story is - why would you trust someone who can lie to their family and friends with such ease just for their own gratification?
2006-10-22 10:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its true and women also like him then its a prat of life. Many cases are there in same matters (due to interest of any others opposite some times women get new partners and some times man get new too.) Therefore I think its can be done with all respected manners.
2006-10-22 10:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by Bhatti B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to break your heart, but he has gotten what he wanted, at least once. Do not let him string you along for years, months, or even weeks. If you really love him, set a reasonable time frame. Before I was out of college, I had 6 married men want to "date" me! Six! I am attractive, but would never call myself a 10! They just wanted some extra nookie! And 3 of them said they wanted to leave their wives. Well, talk is cheap. All of them are still with their wives. They did not want a GF, they wanted a mistress. If you want to be a mistress, that is up to you, just figure out what YOU want and don't wait for him.
2006-10-22 10:49:26 · answer #7 · answered by Hurricane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. If he's not single then don't mess with him until those divorce papers are signed.Don't "body share" with him anymore and find a new single man.
2006-10-22 10:38:28 · answer #8 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets see...you can say: You're a liar and a cheat and you used me for sex (not body sharing, honey). Now, go home to your wife and don't call me anymore.
Now that you know he's married, you would be disrespecting his wife if you continue. Dump the liar. He's not getting a divorce. He's only looking for pus*sy!!
2006-10-22 10:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she shouldn't have shard body or anything else it wasn't his alone to share.. she should tell him to ask again when he is legally divorced and see how things go from there. why would you want someone that cheated on there existing wife.. don't that show you that he would cheat on you too.. common sense here tells the person to stay away..
2006-10-22 10:41:43 · answer #10 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋