I have had a crush on a guy friend at work. To a degree, I still have some feelings for him. Sometime, I like him as if he were my brother, but other times I wish he was my bf. The thing is when I told him that I was having feelings for him, he told me he already has a gf, whom he plans to marry next year. Even though, he's engaged sometimes I feel like he likes me too, you know sometimes he looks at me, or try to make me laugh. I don't know it's strange. What should I do to get over having feelings for him, should I stop talking to him?
2006-10-22 03:21:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Treat others the way you wish to be treated yourself. This goes doubly for his fiancee. If he's willing to cheat on her with you, he'll just as easily cheat on you.
2006-10-22 03:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh why not try putting yourself in her shoes and look at it from her position... Maybe now with a boyfriend she is busy texting/calling her boyfriend and therefore cant text you first. But maybe she is talking to her girlfriends more cuz she is getting advice on how to deal with problems about her boyfriend and doesnt feel that you can give her the right advice. if she has a problem with the boyfriend maybe she will come to you and ask "do most guys act like..." and that will help but i wouldnt be concerned too much unless she starts ignoring you completely.
2016-05-21 22:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK....he was straight with you, he likes you; but there is someone else in his heart. So, keep it light and smile when he comes along. Talk to him about your "boyfriend" and he will relax. And....BACK OFF....he has a woman! Have some respect for the other female in his life! If something happens and they break up, you will be one of the first he will tell. Also....relationships at work are not proper. They upset the whole environment. Godloveya.
2006-10-22 03:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to stop talking to him, but stop flirting with him. He is engaged - if he wanted more from you he wouldn't have told you that. Maybe he thinks you're nice so that's why he still jokes around.
Respect his wishes and his finace's put yourself in that situation. If your fiance was at work would you want some girl putting the moves on him? Karma...remember what goes around comes around.
2006-10-22 03:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by totalstressor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to just think of him as a friend and keep talking to him. Don't analyze everything he does. Just b/c he's in a relationship doesn't mean that he doesn't have feelings for you, he just knows he can't act on them. You can stay friends if you respect his relationship, but if you just want to get over him, it's probably easiest to just stop talking to him.
2006-10-22 03:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by Jan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as far as you know he is taken....he is engaged..respect that...you wouldn't want someone to take your fiance away. Be nice but distant to this man. If he is being too friendly show him you are not interested. Believe me if he isn't faithful to her, he wouldn't be faithful to you. Find a guy that thinks you are the best person he has ever met. And a guy that you can trust.
2006-10-22 03:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by debbie2243 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect his relationship. And the looks and trying to make you laugh, sounds like he is just trying to be nice. Maybe he still wants to be FRIENDS.
2006-10-22 03:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stop talking to him... What he does that he deserves this kind of friendship? Continue talking to him and try making him as your god brother [pet brother] so that you can still love him as a bro-sis relationship
2006-10-22 03:28:06 · answer #8 · answered by chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definatly not, try to be more of a friend. Think of him more as a friend. Try to get the feelings pass your head. Its not gonna happen.
2006-10-22 03:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ou twith you and find some guys girl! they are out there. hes taken. move on. you are going to waste your life pining over this guy when the real guy you are suppose to be with is looking for you somewhere else and you are going to miss him! then what?
2006-10-22 03:30:06 · answer #10 · answered by HowDoUGetOut 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋