There is the girl at Uni i have liked for over 8 months, but i have stayed back because of a boyfriend. There is going to be a 4 month break where i wont see her.
i want to tell her i am interested incase anything happens between them in break.
Ive got two ways im thinking of telling her, which do you think is better?
"If you didn't have a boyfriend and i had asked you out, would you have said yes? "
or
"So still going out with your boyfriend, (her answer), oh that sucks, you should let me know when you dump him"
i really wanna get the point that i do like her across. I dont want her wondering, id rather say the second, but is that really letting her know i like her?
any rewording would be great aswell
2006-10-22 03:19:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HEY HEY HEY! please don't even think about doing it in the second way! that's plain creepy!
use method number one, if u decide to choose between the two.
ok?
oh, and all the best!
2006-10-22 03:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by thehelper 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should go up to her and say, "Hey (her name), I know you have a boyfriend and all but I really like you and hope you keep me in mind over the break cause I'll be thinking about you."
Then just walk away.
Try it. At least you're not asking her out so you won't feel any rejection. Your forwardness and directness just may work. Women like an up front and honest guy that doesn't play games. She may come back and ask you out. Hope it works. Good luck.
2006-10-22 10:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should tell her how u feel then let her decide if she likes u more then her bf or not. u should be like "hey. before we don't see each other for s while, i just wanted to tell u that i really care about u. now what ever happens between us happens. i just wanted u to now that if u ever break up w/ ur boyfriend, i'm here." just say that. it's not to akward and tells her how u feel. ur throwing the ball into her court and she has do decide what to do w/ it. u have to be ok w/ the fact that she might not pick u over her current bf. that's who she's w/ now. but i bet she'll choose u! best of luck!!
2006-10-22 10:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by Emy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"If you didn't have a boyfriend and i had asked you out, would you have said yes? "
say that one
b/c the second one sounds like you want their relationship to fall apart and that you aren't happy for her
2006-10-22 10:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by sweetchik5188 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you need to come up front and tell her how much you want to date her.Then ask her out to go out for a cappo or lunch. Rock her wold.
sincerly,
shelby
2006-10-22 10:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like the second!! "So still going out with your boyfriend, (her answer), oh that sucks, you should let me know when you dump him"
its kinda matter-of-fact. . . darn . . . your loss. hahah love it!
2006-10-22 10:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by howdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be shy tell her how u feel and that ur sory that her and her boyfriend broke up
2006-10-22 10:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by Joy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choice #1 sounds pretty mature and serious. good luck!
2006-10-22 10:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by Sabine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up to her.......ask for her number.....and call often to talk 2 her.....she'll catch the hint...i promise
2006-10-22 10:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋