I am sufferring from my boyfriend breaking up...I want to hear he say that he forgive me because I came to his house uninvited...I wrote him a letter for an apology and asking for his forginess, deep down in my heart I know I really love him and that was the reason lead me to commit that mistake...should I go head and contact him? All my friends told me I have to wait for him to make the first move, the ball is in his court now and he should know what to do because he was the one who sent mail saying "goodbye" first...I am so miserable, I couldn't eat, sleep, my life schedule was totally messed up, I couldn't concentrate on my job either, please, help me out this situation, all your advices would be greatly appreciated...May God Bless You All...
2006-10-22 03:09:14 · 6 answers · asked by betty n 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry that your heart is broken. I've been there more than once and it is a horrible feeling. I'm not sure what the best way is for you to forget this guy - but I can tell you what I did...
I thought about all the other things I loved besides him. Hanging out with friends, performing in plays, taking classes, watching movies, swimming - etc. And I did them all as much as possible - and took good care of myself. I was still sad - and felt so helpless sometimes - but I just kept going. My friends were a HUGE help. They were very supportive and helped to keep me busy - and my MIND busy.
Unfortunately, the truth is - that it took time. You've probably heard it said that "time heals all" - and it's usually true.
God will guide you to just the right place. God is smart like that. It might not feel like it right now - but the Universe has a fabulous plan for you - and if you know that in your heart - it will reveal itself to you.
Take good care of yourself and love yourself. Your own mind is just about the only thing you can control - so do it!!
Blessings!
2006-10-22 03:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, how to forget someone in the fastest way?? There's no easy answer for this one. I think you need to continue trying to live your life. By you continuing to try to talk to him, he's just going to get more upset. Your friends are right; let him make the first move. It sounds silly, but I always say that you have cry it out. Put on some slow music..maybe you guys had a special song..listen to it and cry. This helps get rid of feelings sort of. But if you really really love him, there is no quick easy way to get over him. Time heals all wounds, but some wounds are going to take a lot longer to heal. Good luck!
2006-10-22 03:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by M V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't die. The fastest way to forget him is to stop thinking of him. Pray for inner peace. Talk to a friend or family. Voice out your opinions. If possible, forget about him and move on in life. I know how that feels. Don't go begging for him. He's just not worth to do that. God Bless you too gurl
2006-10-22 03:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by chris 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I might forget some things in life Never the lovely birds though :)
2016-05-21 22:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww..don't worry hun! I think you shoould make the first move if you feel that way, no one should ever hold back their true feelings. Don't let him make the first move because he may like you, but may be shy. Make the first move, don't be shy and go for it!
2006-10-22 03:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
die!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-22 03:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋