i wanna know because we're 13 and we love each other alot
2006-10-22 02:59:36 · 13 answers · asked by EZ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
whoa, hold up there kiddo... you are 13?! thats really sweet that you think you guys love each other that much but i would hold off on marriage til at least 17, 18, i mean dont you think it would be awesome to have a girlfriend for 4 or 5 years before you got married? you'd be setting an example about what love really is adn you would be able to grow closer by helping with each others problems. also, not saying this is going to happen to you 2, but highschool changes things, you develop new likes adn dislikes and your tastes change adn you might decide that yea you like ehr but you love someone else. like i said it might be a tad bit to early to be thinking about marriage, how about instead you buy her a boutque of her fav flowers for no reason instead? that'll make her smile.
good luck i wish you 2 a good one...
2006-10-22 03:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings are perfectly valid but you need to accept that you are both just beginning the emotional and physiological changes that you will have to go through. You have both only just hit puberty. Just be glad you have this time with each other and don't think about whether you have a future together. You are both still much too young to make adult decisions like spending the rest of your lives together.
I would say that if you really love her and believe that you'll always want to be with her, then really put in the effort to do well at school, so that you can get good results in your exams. You will need these to get a good job with prospects, so that when the time comes you will know you can look after your wife and children, and provide for them financially. They will be relying on you. So have you done your homework??
2006-10-22 10:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by Specsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWWW! That is just so adorable! Seriously now, you should wait until you're older. If the two of you still feel the same way towards each other at say, age 21, as you do now, then by all means go for it. I hope my answer helps you. Good Luck.
2006-10-22 10:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to wait until you get a little older. You will not be able to find a job to support her at the age of 13.
2006-10-22 10:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can give her a promise ring, but I would save the real deal for when you are a bit older.
2006-10-22 10:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if your going to be engaged for at least 10 yrs.
2006-10-22 12:17:38 · answer #6 · answered by april showers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww honey that sweet but your to young to get married at your age (where do you live) if it ment to be she ll always be there for you wait till your grown up enough to realize what is all about,
2006-10-25 21:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by yvonne p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not OK you don't even know what real love is. What you have is puppy love.
2006-10-22 10:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by Shonreaq G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you love her ?
at 13 far out i didnt even know what love was.. lol
2006-10-22 10:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by ling l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOOOOOOOOW........WAIT ON THAT ONE BUD.....IF YOU REALLY, REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER, IT CAN WAIT. FINISH SCHOOL AND GET A JOB!! HOW ARE YOU GOING TO SUPPORT HER? A FAMILY? ARE YOU EVEN IN HS YET?? YOU HAVE TO GET PARENTS CONSENT ANYWAYS SINCE YOU ARE UNDER 16.
2006-10-22 12:58:58 · answer #10 · answered by kimandkaitlyn2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋