where should I go to meet good guys?

Question

My life is so boring,and I am getting old. I want a relationship, a boyfriend. Where should I go to find my Mr.right?

Party?Cafe?Where?

I am no longer in school. I am working in a very boring company.

Answer 1

I could be more specific if I knew where you were located...

You have the right idea though. Coffee shops, special interest groups, clubs, church, work contacts, museums ...almost anywhere...

But Avoid...Bars and the Internet! That will save you a lot of pain and aggravation.

Answer 2

Obviously, I do not know what opportunities exist in your particular town. However, trust me when I tell you that you will never find "Mr. Right" in a bar (night club, etc.). Parties are also not a likely place to find a guy who is interested in anything more than sex. My suggestion is for you to become involved in volunteering. That's where well intended, often very successful, people can be found in abundance. Volunteer in activities that are not traditionally female oriented (i.e., ladies auxiliaries, health care, etc.). Instead, join Habitat For Humanity, if there is a chapter in your area, or Green Peace. Teach youthful cheerleaders with a Pop Warner Football League. Become a "Team Mom" on a baseball or other sports team. You get the idea. Also, become involved in your church. All of these suggestions will put you in close proximity to male volunteers. Then, get to know better the ones you like. Take things slowly. Don't have sex with anybody until you are quite comfortable that you know them well and that he likes you for more than sex. Good luck.

Answer 3

The kind of guy you want doesn't exist. Mr. Right does not exist. Since you are old..what you need to do now is settle. This is karma for all those times you treated men badly or ignored them at a younger age.

But all is not lost.. the internet is a great place for you to meet men. As for public places, you must be more aggressive with guys. Most of them will not talk to you .. even if you are dressed provocatively becuase we have this thing called approach anxiety and its worse for us if you are extremely beautiful. Approach anxiety for men is ingrained in our male genetics and is a byproduct of a time when only one male.. the alpha.. the strongest male in the pack.. was allowed to copulate with all the females in the tribe.

When you approach him, you bypass that genetically hardwired ciruit that fears that your husband or boyfriend is gonna come by and beat him up.

Since most men like to fix things... you should actually aproach a man with a question.. like "how do I fix a flat tire?" From your conversation with him, you can easily tell from gut instinct whether you want to take him home or not. To bring him home, ask him if he could help you set the time on your VCR.. or ask him to look at your plumbing. If he doesn't get the hint by then.. get his number .. and call on him to fix other things around the house. If he still doesn't get the hint, just go down on him. I'm sure he will return the favor.

By the way, you want a man who wants to have sex with you. What kind of woman would want a eunich for a husband!!!!!

And don't take things slowly.. that's the worst advice for a woman who is past her prime....taking things slowly is what got you into this mess in the 1st place remember? You don't have much time left. Your biological clock is ticking and you aren't in highschool anymore. If you get pregnant and he doesn't stick around.. you still got a chance to reproduce and make a baby. In this day in age.. women don't have to be dependent on men as they once were.

Answer 4

Well there are plenty of guys out there but u have to find the right one. Dnt go ne where u dnt want to, If ur not the party type dnt go to a party to find a guy cos they will probly be the sort of person hu does enjoy parties. Go sum where u enjoy to find a man hu u can relate to! if u prefer quiet environments go to a cafe or if u prefer a man hu enjoys going out alot go to a pub x

Answer 5

there are many good guys around the world they dont live in cafe or parties they re someone like you maby they have a boring work but they make themselve happy they think about many good things so they become happy. you can do it too...

Answer 6

Where you like to go so that the two of you will have some things in common.

Answer 7

you should look for guys at yo skool and yo church mabey during the summer go to a summer camp to find guys and skating rinkss

Answer 8

bar

Answer 9

look no further, just email me lol

Answer 10

your school