Yesterday while my bf was hanging out with his friends at 1am I called him and he didn't pick up. I kept calling and get more and more worried and mad. I can't control my anger.
What should I do if this kind of thing happens again?
2006-10-22 01:51:40 · 13 answers · asked by angela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do the same thing and feel foolish and a stalker after. just try calm down next time and call once and not again. he obviously doesn't want to talk to us and just makes us look stupid by continuing calling
2006-10-22 02:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by Hatty Sue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not know how old you are, but if you are young let me give you some tough advice from someone that knows. Some people are going to scream about this but it is true. First of all, your boyfriend should answer the phone. If you call and the voice mail picks up then he has turned the phone off. Usually he is with a woman. Next thing, if you call him and he does not answer, he is either showing off for his friends or with another woman. If a call is not returned within the hour, then he is scamming sweetie. NEVER call him more than once. That gives him power. Act like it does not bother you at all. If you get his voice mail tell him on the voice mail. I guess that you are busy, on my way out. Love ya. He will call back. Answer the phone, only a cell phone, never the home phone, and say oh hi honey, I am a little busy, I will call you back. NEVER let a man think that you are home pining away for him or he will run all over you.
2006-10-22 01:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by 2fine4u 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it somewhat relies upon on how lengthy you've been relationship him. Yea hun is continually an outstanding initiate. i began with Hun then i moved to expensive. Now after about 7 months ive began calling him babe. or you are able to in basic terms wait and be conscious if he starts off calling you something. Dont call him Pookie undergo he might want to hate it... haha
2016-12-05 02:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you trust him? If so, then 1-2 calls and he still don't pcik up, you can stop calling him and SMS him instead. If he see your SMS and know you are worried sick for him, he will at least return your SMS if it is not convenience to call. I know sometimes your mind will run wild and wonder why he needs to stay up so late. My husband stay up as late as 3am with his client, for a start I used to wait for him till he return but as times goes back, I just get too tired to always wait and I let him know my concern and he try to compromise. Try tell him your feeling...all the best.
2006-10-22 01:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by vosy2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send a message to call back and wait ... be patient. Unnecessarily worrying about things can turn into some serious problem.
2006-10-22 01:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling him. When you figure out how to control yourself you will be amazed how it effects your self esteem and other aspects of your life, he will call you back and if for some reason he doesn't then just remeber, you are the one in control.
2006-10-22 01:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by ladylunamina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 1AM? When I get calls at 1AM, I ignore them too. By you calling him, at hat hour, he realizes you are only checking up on him... that usually pisses off a guy pretty fast. It may even cause him to do something to get even... men are like that.
The only calls I want at 1AM are emergency calls!
oh yes BTW, grow up!
2006-10-22 02:02:07 · answer #7 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
communicate.He's your boyfriend so you should be able to talk about things.if you can't talk about your problems then your gonna have loads of problems.
it's easy to feel mad and angry when your unsure of what is happening.your mind goes racing!hopefully next time he'll be understanding and take a few minutes away from the boys to chat to you
2006-10-22 01:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by shiloh jolie-pitt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate this to and if feels like when I am with him he will do anything to answer he always looks at caller ID at least so why won't he answer when I call!!1
2006-10-22 01:56:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay cool.. call twice if he doesn;t answer, sms him and tell him your going over to a "GUY" friendss house for a party... then ignore his calls.. if he loves u. HE will be very worried... rmb.. only call twice and then sms him once
2006-10-22 01:55:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋