Alright, me and my ex were together for 10 months. Than she broke up with me because we fought alot. Than I begged her for like 3 weeks, and really pushed her away. But all suddenly, today, I acted like I moved on and didn't care., I said i went to a club (Which I did).. She has her ex that she keeps hanging out with all the time, shes trying to make me jelous by any means.
Her ex Cheated on her twice, and kissed her sister. While they were together. She got mad and kept asking me what I did, what am i doing all day today. In the end I think I messed up.. I brought up her ex, and she probably thinks shes winning now. And said she didn't care what I did anymore.
Should I just leave her alone? And move on? Maybe than she'll start caring or no? Thanks.
2006-10-22 01:40:36 · 12 answers · asked by Somone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why throw out your garbage just to go back and get it? I am not saying she is garbage, but why would you want an ex back. They are an ex for a reason. If you didn't get along the first time, chances are you won't this time either.
2006-10-22 01:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by Donna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth,my ex and I broke up once before I finally ended it because she cheated on me. The first time I ever laid hands on a girl and that is how it was over the first time. What was really bizarre was that after that happened, we were best friends. She ran right into the arms of another guy who she knew nothing about. This guy just wanted her to dispise me because he was jealous I had her and he didn't. As of now me and my ex have not spoken or had any kind of contact in over a month. Yeah I do care about her and what happens to her. I moved onto someone new now and hope she does the same. Don't stay stuck on one person. There are more fish out there bud. Keep your chin up and someone new will come along just give it some time.
2006-10-22 08:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by josh l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, It's over. Move on with your life. You need to think about the reason for all of your fights and why you were fighting with her. (I am assuming that "Fights" means arguing) Now what is it that you could have done to prevent all of the fights ?? What could she have done to prevent the fights ?? Yet neither of you did anything to prevent them.
Why is her ex in the picture ?? Why did you "act like" you moved on ?? You really do need to move on.
IF and it is a big IF you two were meant to be then I honestly think you two need this time of separation to think about what each of you wants in a relationship and how you can co-exist as a couple. Each one of you has to give and take. Each of you needs to work on your own issues. You for being co-dependent, Her for lacking trust in others. (I know this is a quick judge mental call but this is all the info I have to go on here so sorry if I am off base).
As is dude I would recommend that you go out for a nice long jog and work it out in your mind that this relationship is over. Take a long hot shower, get dressed up and go out and have a great night !! There are more fish in the sea than that one. Grieve and get it out of your system. This is not the end of the world.
2006-10-22 08:53:00 · answer #3 · answered by JohnRingold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on hun shes just playing mind games with you. I think you deserve better than someone who can do this to you. When you pretend you dont care they dont like it. I know this through my own experience. The more attention you pay her the more she will try and get in your head. Ignore her ( i know its hard) when she realises you dont care she will realise what she has lost. Good luck hun xxx
2006-10-22 08:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by spensmum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to play all of these games and work this hard just to be with somone its not worth it. Find someone who wants the same thing you do and you'll find that it won't be that hard. So just move on.
2006-10-22 08:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by regina g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some space and she has to do the same and if you two come together take your time relatoinships don't last anymore because everything is rushed and people don't get the time to really know each other and become friends first.
2006-10-22 08:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by kittywiz28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say move on! No relationship works or lasts if games are being played!!
2006-10-22 08:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by roses are red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, leave her alone + move on.
No, she will not start caring.
Sorry -- truth hurts.
Find a nice girl that won't play games.
2006-10-22 08:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on!! there is someone out there that will treat you like a king or queen. you don't need the hassle
2006-10-22 08:51:05 · answer #9 · answered by jabbernaut_1955 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...do u want to get back with her...r the problems u two had fixable...just think about it
2006-10-22 08:43:49 · answer #10 · answered by fudge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋