This girl i fall in love reject me. I am not quite sure i really love her because this is my first love. I think that if i really love her, i can't forget her. that means i can't be happy anymore as i am very depressed now. my feeling to her is so strong. i can do anything for her. I am thinking her all the time. I don't know how long i have to wait for her. Maybe i wait for her for my whole life but she still doesn't like me. This sucks.
But now i think no matter she likes me or not, i still like her. because i love her.
what should i do? Should i minimize my passion to her?
2006-10-22 01:25:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
practically everyone falls out of love eventually especially if its your first love it may take a year but to take your mind of her find someone else every girl likes to know that someone loves her even if they are married it is a good feeling and when she finds out she as drove you away she will see what she is missing and could start to love you
hope this helps but remember every girl loves to be loved
2006-10-22 01:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by Charlotte.♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be calm for a minute and think. How likely is it that you will meet the love of your life on the very first try? What are the odds that someone who has never swung a bat will hit a home run on the first pitch? What we call "rejection" or a failed relationship is nothing to get all anxious about. In fact, we should expect it. Only by trying out relationships, learning they were not meant to be, and moving on to find someone else can we discover our true love. If it is so precious, it is hidden. You have to work at finding her, not expect her to drop out of a clear blue sky. Be mature. Be patient. Be kind. And above all, keep searching on the road to love.
2006-10-22 08:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time I thought I was in love was when I crashed and burned big time. She put on the act like she loved me back but, couldn't change the way she was a cheater. Which is why were no longer together. I made her happier than anyone will. It sucks were not together anymore but found someone that I've grown to fall in love with. Nothing wrong with caring about someone. If she still likes you cool but, if not than move on and see if she really does care.
2006-10-22 08:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by josh l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love never dies, so they say. Despite the fact that the girl you love doesn't love you in return, I'm sure that if you truly love her, you will love her forever.
Your depression about your unreturned love for her will soon pass with time but if it ever leaves you, your love for her will remain in your heart. So what you should learn is how not to be depressed every time you remember her. Remember that in life, we cannot always have what we want. If she belongs to that group, take it lightheartedly.
There is one thought though that may console you: remember that if you and that girl are destined for each other, Destiny will work his way towards you and that girl belonging to each oher's arms someday, somehow. But if you are not meant for each other, I believe that Destiny will bring you to the path of the woman who best deserves you and your love and make you divert your love from that girl you are now very much in love with to that woman.
When you are bombarded with loneliness these days because of your wantng that girl so much who doesn't feel the same way as you do for her, keep yourself busy with other activities. Try to find other interests such as new sports or hobbies or better yet, go to places where the possibility of your meeting new friends is great. You may just get one great surprise if if happens that one of those new acquaintances is Destiny's new choice for you. All the best.
2006-10-22 08:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your calculations are wrong. That's great that you loved her so much. But she was stupid and didn't appreciate your love and now it's time to heal and move on. Some girls are like that. My daughter would always love the guy madly until he got to the point when he was head over heals in love with her and would do anything for her, then she would get bored with him and dump him. She didn't mean to be mean to them but that was just how she was in her immaturity. Just something to think about for next time. Maybe try playing harder to get. It's sad that people have to do that but it's just a suggestion that I hope might help.
2006-10-22 08:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no expert but how can you say that you love the person if you don't truly know her? I think what you are FEELING for her is a strong attraction...Maybe you should ask yourself why you feel that way about her...is it just because she looks nice or is it because she truly completes you? To me love is about finding the person who will complete you - that someone whom will add to your life and make you a better person...not to do the opposit. Put your emotions aside and really look deep - why do you want to be with her? Is it a physical thing or a lifetime thing?
2006-10-22 08:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, listen. Fact it, she was the first girl you "loved" over time the meaning of that word will change to you, and eventually you probably wont remember the girl you went out with last week, let alone your first "love". Give it some time, it's going to hurt for awhile, but it will pass.
2006-10-22 08:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask yourself, what's the definition of love to you? Just live your life normally, do things you love to do. And when another love comes, live with it.
2006-10-22 08:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by yt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should at least minimize your love towards her if she could not reciprocate your emotions. There are a lot of girls out there, more deserving of your love.
2006-10-22 08:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by Bananananana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unrequited love hurts a lot.
You are young, therefore please believe that you will someday met a nice girl and fall in true love and she will also love you.
2006-10-22 08:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋