I'm aware that a nightcap is an alcoholic drink at the end of the evening. But, when someone invites you "in for a nightcap," are they really offering you a drink, or is it an invitation for sex? I know it's often used as an innuendo, but should I always assume that the person is offering sex instead of just a drink? Are they ever just offering a drink?
2006-10-22 00:52:20 · 17 answers · asked by Dave B. 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This can be a bit tricky. Generally they are offering you a drink to see where it leads. Sometimes it can lead to sex, but not always.
It is an invitation to get to know you a little better, if the progression leads to intimacy, then you get sex.
John D
2006-10-22 00:57:57 · answer #1 · answered by John D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you want it be an offering of sex. Never assume until you accept the invitation and see where it leads from there. What I mean by that is, don't go to the 'nightcap' and start the whole the process of sex. Maybe your date only wants to offer you a drink.
2006-10-22 00:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by blueeyeskenai 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In my experience, if she invites you up for a drink it's because she has already decided she wants to bang you..it means sex.
2006-10-22 01:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
always assume you are being offered a night cap ONLY --- coffee drink --- your company is liked and the date is being extended so enjoy the company and if something else does happen well enjoy that as well
2006-10-22 01:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are offering you alcohol in the hopes that you will get drunk enough to be willing to engage in sex.
2006-10-22 00:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something to drink definitely, but not necessarily sex. This may or may not happen. It all depends later on both of you.
2006-10-22 00:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes.
2006-10-22 01:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-22 00:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would assume that they want you to come in and have a drink because they believe once you get in their they can make a sexual move on you
2006-10-22 00:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by notyours 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes! to both!
2006-10-22 01:02:14 · answer #10 · answered by onottopilot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋