The first boy is my boyfriend and i love him with all my heart, but he's sometimes boring. The second boy i met about 2weeks ago and i think he is so sexy, we click, we both play basketball and so on. But my boyfriend is a football jock (i love jocks)but hes's like a walking football game. I love him and even if i didnt i wouldnt no how to saygoodbye to him(im juss not that type of person to say goodbye to someone) i dont want to because i dont want to hurt him, because i noe how it feels to be hurt. I feel like such a whore. PLEASE HELP
2006-10-22 00:26:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him! Your wasting his life and keeping him from finding someone who will really love him without a straying eye. It's selfish of you to deny him his freedom after you so clearly expressed you not wanting him. :(
2006-10-22 00:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because you might be interested in someone else does not make you a whore. If you're relationship is getting boring, then perhaps you should leave. However, I wouldn't advise you to go for the other guy. You've only known him two weeks. Become friends with the new guy but remain friends with your old. You're young. You have all the time in the world. It's hard not hurting someone, but let your boyfriend know you don't want to hurt him but that you think you would be suited better as friends than boyfriend and girlfriend.
2006-10-22 00:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by catch22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming that you love him more as a friend now, 'cause things are starting to get boring between you two. There isn't really a point to still be with him right now if you're already interested in another guy.
2006-10-22 00:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by yt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the crap...........you said you dont want to hurt him then go on saying you feel like a whore.???????
you obviously don't love him the way you'd like to think you do if you're looking elsewhere. Do HIM the favour and either brake it off or tell him about this other guy. If you "LOVE" this guy he deserves far more that what you're dishing out.
2006-10-22 01:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should abstract from both. You need to think of you and your school work. You shouldn't be confused. Being confused is not of God but of evil.
Here's a verse for you.
1Cor14:33
For God is not a God of disorder but of peace, as in all the meetings of God’s holy people(us-his children).
Find a Christian church near your home and you will enter the family of God. You will receive love and goodness and many prayers. If you can also join a women's Bible Study. Once you follow the Lord, nothing will confuse you. If you don't get in the Word, you will be confused most of your life. Trust me, I know and been through it. Save yourself from alot of grief and I hope you consider my advice.
God's Blessings to you!
2006-10-22 00:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Date a girl.
2006-10-22 00:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your boyfriend, then your choice should be clear, Select to be with him rather than the other one.
2006-10-22 00:33:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we can't make decision. I think you could choose 1 and tell the truth to the other guy.
2006-10-22 00:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by Ropi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your current boyfriend. Looks aint about everything, it is personality that counts.
2006-10-22 00:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_candy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about you forget about both of them and concentrate on your studies? Never occurred to you, has it.
2006-10-22 00:30:18 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋