he doesn't trust me but he tells me that love's me but is very jealous.i think that is boring and look for reason to broke up with me...i love him and i didn't do anything wrong...i want to have trust in me cause i do.
2006-10-21 23:50:39 · 13 answers · asked by ana_scumpyka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get another boyfriend, or you will be miserable and alone! There is nothing wrong with you, it's your boyfriend and his insecurities. That is something he has to figure out on his own. I know of no woman in the world who can change this. I see it time and time again. Don't be a fool, get out before you loose your friends, family, and yourself! That is inevitably what the outcome will be! He won't like you to hang out with friends, because he won't like them. He won't like you to hang out with your family, because they won't like him! You will be alone before you know it, because he will not allow you to hang out, think, or make your own decisions... Sometimes this "jealousy will lead to some form of abuse>>>mental, or physical... IT'S STILL ABUSE!
2006-10-21 23:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by wherenai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either you've done something to make him believe he can't trust you or he's just one of those guys that has trust issues. And the trust issue can be worked out. Just give it time. In a relationship your suppose to put effort into it to make it work so obviously your not in love with him or you'd try and resolve this situation.
2006-10-22 06:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by bktp37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't seem to matter what you do to try and reassure someone who is always jealous, it won't work. There is something lacking in them that won't let them accept a normal relationship without creating drama and making your life miserable. If he continues this behavior you will have to decide to live with it or not. But be careful, it has the potential to become dangerous for you. Good Luck.
2006-10-22 06:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by hayden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think loving a person is also trusting him/ her. It is very difficult to be in a relationship if there is no trust. One of the reason is he is insecure about himself.
It is very painful to be in such a relationship. It is an emotional torture and mentally draining for you. You think about it and make the decision. All the best.
2006-10-22 06:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by gchezmoi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as girls often have trust issues, so do guys. His previous girlfriend may have cheated on him in another relationship. He might just be a jealous person. My boyfriend used to be that way. He went for counselling and got over it though.
2006-10-22 06:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by laislinns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves u more than u loves him.how old is he.If he is jealous what makes u think that he wants to break off with u.And have u ever make him lost trust in u in the past?His good friends also plays a important role too.
2006-10-22 07:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by chriszzzzzzzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is pushing his insecurity onto you and its working.If he was confident you would not be writing this.He needs help in trusting others.He knows what its like to play around so thinks everyone else can do the same and that makes him insecure.
2006-10-22 06:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's too possesive or he doesn't trust you because he's the one doing the wrong thing... well I'm not telling he is but it's just one of my observations w/ others...
2006-10-22 06:55:21 · answer #8 · answered by Rhine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no trust, there is no relationship. Explain this to your boyfriend. You have nothing to lose. If he wants to leave you, he will regardless of whether you say something to him , or not.
2006-10-22 06:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there an answerable question somewhere here? This sentence structure makes Yoda look like an English Professor.
2006-10-22 06:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by Seraphim 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋