i like dis guy but he has no feelings 4 me..wats da best way to 4get about him
2006-10-21 23:36:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anisha M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Best way to forget about the one you love is to hate the person. Yes, seems too contradictory to hate the one you love !
But my friend, if you wish to come out of this situation, try to recall or remember one or two serious drawbacks in that guy. It can be anything, but should make you seriously dislike the person. Every time you have his thought in your mind, recall what was bad in him.
I am sure you will figure out one for yourself. Meanwhile also keep your options open for a guy who may express his liking for you. If he truely likes you, respect his love... who knows he may be the Mr.Right for you & also make you comepletely overcome your past !
All the Best !!
2006-10-21 23:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anand M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just forget about him. If you love him, it's not just a feeling that disappears on will. You have to take time to get over it, and spend some time away from him. If you are in school (which it sounds like you are) and he is in your class, then try not to pay too much attention to him. Go out of your way to avoid him and then one day you will find that the feelings that you had for him have diminished. Not necessarily disappeared, but lessened and then you can have a chance at getting on with your life. Other way to get over him is to find another guy to start dating and let him consume your thoughts.
2006-10-22 06:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by laislinns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am having the hardest time with this one also. My ex of 8 years just left me again and we even have a 4 month old son together. He has already moved on and has another girl falling asleep next to him at night and believe me it hurts. But you just have to keep yourself occupied and busy. Find a new hobby or hang out with friends. I know that it's easier said than done but I'm not going to lie to you, it is very hard to get over the one you love even though he has no feelings for you what-so-ever. So just hang in there and stay stong and just keep telling yourself that there is someone out there better for you.
2006-10-22 06:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by bktp37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard when you love someone and they dont feel the same. But thats life.
You have to remember that you deserve to be loved just as much. Keep busy, really think about why you love him. Is he really worth it? or maybe he is a top bloke? but hey! its his loss right! Just think of what makes you great and get over it. Your going through a faze and you will get over it soon. You will start laughing to your self and think-god, why did I feel that way for him? You'll be fine
2006-10-22 06:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by CUTIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not easy.. there is no right answer for this! But if you have someone else put him in the back of your mind and go on... But compare the 2 men.. The new guy will never have a chance
2006-10-22 06:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by cockednlocked38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First step : force yourselve not to think about him
Second : Do something fun...this will make you realise that you'll still be happy even without him
Third : Don't ever talk to him or text message him...maybe not at the moment when you still have feelings for him
Hope this 3 steps will help. good Luck!
2006-10-22 06:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by Red Beret 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts like hell to be in love with someone and find out they don't love you... But at least he was honest and didn't use your feelings to get what he wants... Best way to get over him is to give it some time... Time is the only thing that can fix things like this..
2006-10-22 06:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by sweetchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
replace him with anotehr guy. if you start to fall for another guy than it's easier to forget about him. thats the best way to get over him. if your stuck seeing him all the time, eg he in your class or at ur work, than you can be friends with him isntead of pushing him away completly. realising that you and him will never be and moving on.
cimply what i'm saying is that the easiest way to forget about him is to concentrate your attention to soemthing else rather than him and it makes it easier for you to forget about him.
2006-10-22 06:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by flaming_ichigo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if u get bz in the day, u will tend to think of him at nite..... maybe try to focus urself on someone else... someone who will reciprocate ur feelings back.. i know it's not as easy as it sounds, but u got to start somewhere... start hangin out with ur frenz more often, widen ur circle of frenz.. this way, u will be kept busy with outings and wat have u... until u will be too tired to even think abt him a nite.. After a while, u will completely forget him and guess wat..... Your social life will have improved tremendously too!
2006-10-22 06:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by SyaKiRa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell yourself that it is his lost that he does not like you. Meanwhile, occupy your time with your girlfriends, family or involve in other activities: studying, shopping, working, meeting new friends, pick up a new hobby, etc etc. Time will help you to forget about him..
2006-10-22 06:43:55 · answer #10 · answered by gchezmoi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋