whats the best way to apologise to a guy for being over the top?
i was dating this guy the last time we left it he wnted to take me for dinner...then i herd nothing nothing at all...i was really worried and concerned he seemed really in to me and very genuine..i text him and called but got no reply i asked his friend he got no reply either...this went for a week i was actually genuinely worried that he had been in an acident or something..i was also really upset..he texted me and said he was sorry about not replying but his phone had been broken for over two weeks ( and i do belkeive this as my freind is dating his mate and his mate could not get in contact either over this time..i got really upset as i relly did not know if he had died or something and i really liked him...anyway he has just texted me he said sorry for not replyng but his phone was broken he had just had it fixed today and had been at his sons birthday all day and he did not need this pressure...what should i say back to keep my dignity and his respect HELP GUYS
2006-10-21 22:29:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
JUST SAY YOUR SORRY AND LEAVE IT AT THAT. DONT CALL AND BUG HIM. WAIT FOR HIM TO CALL YOU. 2 WEEKS, HIS PHONE BROKE? COME ON, LET HIM GO. THAT IS WHAT HE IS DOING, LETTING YOU GO. NO MAN WILL EVER BE STRAIGHT UP WITH A GIRL WHEN HE WANTS TO STOP DATING, TRUST ME. THEY THINK IT IS BETTER TO LIE AND SAY WHAT THEY THINK WE WANT TO HEAR. THEY DONT WANT TO HURT US! 2 WEEKS, TAKE A HINT. DONT LOWER YOURSELF. IF IT WAS MEANT TO BE, HE WOULD HAVE FOUND A WAY TO GET A HOLD OF YOU AND LET YOU KNOW WHAT WAS GOING ON. DONT WASTE YOUR TIME ON MEN WHO ARE NOT MEANT FOR YOU. THERE IS "ONE" OUT THERE ESPECIALLY FOR YOU. DONT SETTLE FOR ANYONE BUT THAT ONE SPECIAL PERSON. IF YOU EVER HAVE TO WONDER, THEN THE RELATIONSHIP IS NOT WHAT IT IS. TRUE LOVE, YOU NEVER HAVE TO WONDER, YOU WILL ALWAYS KNOW!!! TRUST ME!
2006-10-21 22:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by jaylove209 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything! If he wants to contact you he will. Sometimes, people just aren't into us.
Let's say (for example) that you went on a date with someone. He was really nice, but you just didn't feel a connection with him. If he kept contacting you via, text messages, voice mails and messages through mutual friends, would it make you feel uncomfortable? Sure it would. And it would be okay for you to feel that way.
Most people don't (or won't) take the time to call someone to say, "Thanks for joining me for dinner. I really enjoyed your company but I don't think we're a match." We don't make this call because we don't want to hurt any ones feelings. Have you ever been in that position?
Personally, I would love it if we were all honest, enough to admit to another that "we're not a fit" but the reality is...we're not.
2006-10-21 23:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will in basic terms shop your dignity and win back his appreciate in case you tutor some humility. visit him...head to head is ultimate, in spite of if it is in basic terms 2 minutes...and convey regret. convey regret first on your man or woman habit, then tell him how apprehensive you have been approximately him. end with the help of apologizing back, so he's acquainted with you're no longer making excuses on your habit. You did no longer provide us any ideas approximately what you probably did that replaced into over the authentic. it is in basic terms a great vast abrupt hollow on your tale. while you are going to make issues top back, you would be able to desire to bear in mind as much as you are able to of what you probably did/reported, to no longer tell absolutely everyone else yet just to take duty.
2016-10-02 13:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You went out once and you already had him dead and you wearing widow weeds? First, don't let him see this question. Second, try not appearing too eager and desperate, which brings us back to not letting him read this at all. Talk about scaring a guy. One date and he's dead and buried with you crying tears like the sincere, desperate female he thought you were all along.
2006-10-21 22:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by older, not wiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not interested in you.
If he was he could have easily gotten a hold of you.
There are things called payphones which he could have used to call you. If he knew where you lived he could have stopped by.
You do not need to apologize. Do yourself a favor a find someone who is considerate that can pick up a payphone and call you.
2006-10-21 22:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by m_harvery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. Honesty is the best policy. Tell him you were interested in him and then you were genuinely worried when he didn't respond and you know you overdid it and you apologize. Ask for forgiveness and then let it go.
2006-10-21 22:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm it might be too late if he doesn't like clingy girls. There's no need to apologize just tell him you were worried about him and leave it at that. you could say you thought he got in an accident too. that's a tough one though good luck.
2006-10-21 22:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by AK-47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and meet him. A good person can read your mind from your face itself. That will be your great apologies to him. Best wishes.
2006-10-21 22:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by Gopalakrishnan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to respond to this, but K S said it all. I don't have enough points to give a thumbs up, but it was a great answer.
2006-10-21 23:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by Dose of Reality 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be honest.
That should give you your dignity back somewhat, and unless you are honest, you don't deserve his respect.
2006-10-21 22:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋