like i ve seen a lot ..bet u too ..the gals dont seem to make their move no matter how much they like him ..they expect him to make the first move .which sometimes never happens ... then they evcentually loose him
2006-10-21 21:55:30 · 22 answers · asked by hezaz007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some woman feel more comfortable.Remember woman don't want to give the "wrong" impression so they often times do nothing.Women are also more likely to have confidence issues.Do you look at other men and compare yourself?Women do(most anyway).They don't want to put themselves out on a limb..for fear of rejection ...damaging their already fragile psyche.
Sucks for men because we have to do this or ......well we wouldn't be here.
2006-10-21 22:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by bob a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, men are expected to make the first move. Men are the hunters! It's tradition....the natural order of things.
It's the same in the animal kingdom. The male always makes an effort to impress the female, and makes all the running. That is why male birds (e.g. peacocks, Mallard ducks etc.) are so much more colourful than females.
2006-10-21 22:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Copper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the way its always been I guess........nothing wrong with a girl making the first move, but its not something I would do. I like to know a bloke likes me first
2006-10-21 22:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by cheekimadam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls dont always have the confidence or guts to ask men out but you would normally get the clear signs of body language and looks and if they dont wana make the move then wots the point it wasnt meant to be.
2006-10-21 22:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by angelalways 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are the guiders and the providers of the world. get use to it. men are not mind-readers, so ask lots of questions and make the first move CAUTIOUSLY and don't assume anything. the issue here is control. know that the one who starts can also end it.
2006-10-21 22:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they are old fashioned at heart, expect the man to make the first move. Some people fear of rejection ....
2006-10-21 22:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa P 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
most of women would like men to make the first move that's what makes men to be in control
2006-10-22 03:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by Lord Glyde 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have lost many of the best because they didn't make any move. It's a shame.
2006-10-21 22:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by B i n g o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they have to start first but there's some girls hwo like to start first if the guy dont make any move
2006-10-21 22:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had several women make the first move.
2006-10-22 02:10:08 · answer #10 · answered by justme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋