My boyfriend's best girl friend is going to be away for 3 months. Now he's always in a bad mood whenever I talk to him and he yells at me. He puts pictures of the two of them on his display pic and she's all over his screenname and EVERYTHING. She's only left for two days!
I know there's nothing going on between them but it's really annoying how he always does things like talk about how another girl is so cute or how his best (girl) friend had a nipslip. He knows that I dont' like hearing about that kind of stuff but he does it anyway.
Sometimes he writes stuff like "I just don't love you anymore." and of course people would assume it's us and he just tells them it's not about anything.
What is his deal? Why does he keep doing this?
2006-10-21 21:32:42 · 17 answers · asked by nippy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were you, he'd be an ex.
I think he's in love with her and would want to be more than just friends. I'd save yourself the heartache and the trouble and just get out of the relationship, you are bound to find a hell of a lot better guy who will treat you like a queen and love only you.
2006-10-21 21:39:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The very best thing you could do is say "Next" why not just let the good things in your life and get rid of the things that cause you pain. There are millions of us guys all around you and I am sure you can find one that will make you feel like the princess you r. Once this guy feels like he has the control to abuse you mentally and keeps doing it he will never change.
2006-10-22 04:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by redondo69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to me it's seems like you need to have a serious talk with him. You need to calmly address this subject. Tell him you want to be his #1, not his friend. Don't completely say, "me or her", that will only make a guy mad, it will make him feel like you don't trust him, so he might pick her over you. Don't allow him to think of you as a jelious girlfriend, that always causes yelling(no one wants that). Tell him you don't like what he writes, or if it truthfully means anything, even if it didn't I still don't believe it's appropriate for him say something like that. Be honest.
2006-10-22 04:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by c_me_bliss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not into you, he likes his best friend. And honestly, his behavior is boarding on abusive. Leave him. The yelling is unacceptable and he is being disrespectful towards your feelings. Move on. Be single or find a man worthy of your presence.
2006-10-22 04:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by raintigar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. It appears that maybe he is in denial about his relationship with his "Girl" friend. It sounds as though he would like it to be more, but she probably wouldn't have him. You deserve a man that is going to treat you with respect and love you. Life is too short to be miserable. Dont be miserable.
2006-10-22 04:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by LISA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would really pay attention to all his actions. He sounds like a man who does not appreciate who he has. If you allow him to treat you this way he will always disrespect you at will.
You owe it to yourself to not let others(especially men) take you for granted, neglect you or abuse you(mentally or physically).
2006-10-22 04:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in love with his best girl friend. You should seriously tell him to chill or it's over. If he does'nt have feelings for her, then what he's doing is just weird.
2006-10-22 04:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's clearly in love with the other girl but possibly in denial about it. I think you need to accept that his heart doesn't lie with you and find someone else who will return your love and treat you with respect.
2006-10-22 04:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's quite obvious - or are you just trying to deny the fact that it is?
he likes his best friend! not just like... i think he's absolutely head over heels insanely in love with her...
sorry to be saying this... i think you should at least address this issue cause in the process, you're only hurting yourself more.
2006-10-22 04:40:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's only pretending to be with you to make his friend jealous or something. Is the sex that good? just dump the loser already.
2006-10-22 04:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by Jason D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋