He's a divorced man in his 60's.
2006-10-21 21:25:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give him back the gifts
2006-10-21 21:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First , quit accepting gifts from him. Then think about how you can return the gifts you did accept. You need to place yourself in his shoes for awhile.Chances are he's just lonely and is enjoying the attention your giving him, but you should keep in mind that he's also human and has feelings just like you or any other human, young or old. You should sense some guilt for taking advantage and playing on his feelings. If you can't face him knowing this, the only other thing to do would be to move away and let him have a chance to heal from the hurt you inflicted on him.
2006-10-21 21:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd advise you not to use men for gifts or related purposes, because men are a lot of times emotionaly weaker than women when it comes to relationships with the opposite sex, but if you want to get rid of him, you should stop accepting gifts from him and come clean about the whole situation, as long as you don't do it in an "I've used you up, now get away from me" manner.
2006-10-21 21:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gf and I were talking about how she has a male friend who is dating a woman and the woman is constantly buying him things. He likes dating her, but has told her consistently that he isn't interested in a relationship, which we believe is why she keeps doing it, trying to win him over. He was asking if he should feel guilty about it and we both agreed, nope. Bottom line. If someone wants to buy you things for someone, for whatever reason, it doesn't make you a prostitute, otherwise Christmas would be creepy. If people want to buy someone a gift for whatever reason, it's their money and they can do what they please. I find this to be a good question, because a lot of people seem to want to come out and try to pass moral judgment, even though they seem to always expect a big gift from their significant other on their birthday. You can try to differentiate the level of seriousness in a relationship as an argument, but in the end, the majority of us have bought someone we liked/loved a gift because we're interested in them. Otherwise, we'd just be handing random people "thinking of you" cards and chocolates. Just think of the horror!
2016-03-18 22:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you accept the gifts in the first place? When you use someone who is overly nice and believes that you love them, you hurt them for no reason.
You should give back the gifts and explain that you do not feel the spark of love.
Take care,
Troy
2006-10-21 21:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but tell me how to get a sugar daddy without sleeping with him? lol.
2006-10-21 21:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by Pseudonym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you One day when you look up and find you are being taken advantage of...remember him. Here is something else to think of as well. "Don't do to someone else what you would not like done to you".
2006-10-21 21:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by Robere 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him nicely and then tell hiom that if he wants the things he gave you back then you will givwe them to him. also tell him to stop you don't want anything farther from him. and that u are sorry it wasn't supposed to end up this way.
2006-10-21 21:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him and he'll go away or tell him to get lost
2006-10-21 21:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop accepting the gifts and say cheers...
2006-10-21 21:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by Jaylaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An you say you never had to sleep w' him....hhhmmm.. let me think.. wait i know..send him to my house! lol
2006-10-21 21:28:51 · answer #11 · answered by lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋