i had a very good friend who suddenly became my worst nightmare!! she once asked how i felt about her and i said i'd like to be friends at the moment cos i had to concentrate on my studies. suddenly she went from saying she missed me most when she travels, to calling the cops when i text her! in fact i mistakenly texted her the other day and she called the cops! and she cries on the phone so the cops really think i harrassed her. funny thing is, she always looks out for me in class but NEVER talks to me.
i tried talking to her. she smiled and later called the cops. i told her what ever she thought i did wrong, for peace's sake i'm sorry. cops again. i ignored her, and then she's looking out for me, sitting right in frot of me in class and hanging around where i am.
what can a brotha do???
2006-10-21 21:20:31 · 14 answers · asked by Vendetta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You ever see that movie with Clint Eastwood "Play Misty For Me"? Man you are in it. She is obviously emotionally and mentally unbalanced. Her "looking out for you" sounds like she is stalking you. Her calling the cops is going to backfire on her. She's wasting their time and they won't put up with for that indefinitely. If she calls them again explain the situation to them (they probably already know). Find out what your options are. In the meantime delete all her text and phone addresses you have. And stay strictly away from her when ever possible.
2006-10-21 22:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one thing i would explain to the police that you are not doing anything to her....next i would stay as far away from her as you can...she sounds like nothing but trouble...what did the cops tell you to do..i would also go talk to the counselor about this situation and let them know that you are not the one that needs talked to hear and that you do not know what her problem is..
2006-10-22 04:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is wacko... stay away from her! You don't need the problems and possibility of getting into serious trouble. All ways make sure you have witnesses around when you are in same room or area as her for your protection. Then, it's not your word against hers.
2006-10-22 04:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by looking for answers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not a good situation. You have to start ignoring her while remaining as friendly as you can. Since you cannot talk sense with her you have to slowly withdraw from being around her.
2006-10-22 04:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple... IGNORE HER!!! And when she comes to you? Give her a piece of her own salt. Call the cops! Tell them she's stalking ya.
2006-10-22 04:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by cre8or 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman calling the cops on you. You are screwed. Move away.
2006-10-22 04:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would turn the tables and get a restraining order on her, she is the one with a problem, seems to me she needs to be put in a mental facility. ;)
2006-10-22 05:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop texting her for one thing and keep on ignore ing her.
2006-10-22 04:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear tighter underwear
2006-10-22 04:23:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Date her sister.
2006-10-22 04:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋