I'M the eldest in a brod of three I'm 30 have a stable job.Me&My brods have many differences in life.Our parents would act as referees everytime we had an arguement.I've got a plan...When my parents die(GOD FORBID) I WOuld leave tham alone to go on my own& I don't want to see them anymore for the rest of my life!!!! WHAT WOULD be your best advise for me? THANK YOU & MERRY CHRISTMAS
2006-10-21 21:11:52 · 9 answers · asked by BLOW J. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Distancing yourself from them sounds fine to me. But not seeing them again or having any input from them in your life. That would be so sad.
Maybe you all need to get away from your parents influence and make your own ways for a while?
Two of my kids , both young adults and married cannot be in the same room for half an hour without going at it; but they would defend each other to the end to an outsider. Fundamentally they both want to be the leader of the pack!
Go and be successful and let you brothers find their own level and success in life;but please do not walk away from them. Life is too short to give yourself sadness.
2006-10-21 21:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by Christine H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, stop talking like BRA and GAA and BROD, like a new wave scumbag Hawaiian that's watching too much scumbag Dog and Beth TV. Sounds like white trash to me! ITS BROTHERS AND SISTERS, like the Latin based German language has brought down.
Second, I don't think you have the balls to ex-communicate them. But if I am wrong and you do, you have a long road ahead of you and you have to stick to it, but it is peace of mind when you finally pull that phone jack out of the wall for good. I did it 7 years ago, and sometimes I suffer for it, but it is better than having someone else make you suffer than by your own hand.
2006-10-22 04:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by careercollegestudent69 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Merry Chrismas indeed. Some brothers are better off not be seen forever. Oh well, try to love thy enemies, they in turn may or may not love you back. Somebody have to give first though.
2006-10-22 04:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jason D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go your own way and be happy, forgive your parents, they are just trying to be fair.
2006-10-25 03:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sue Chef 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful you have family and work out your differences.
Many people would give everything to have what you have.
Grow up!!!
2006-10-22 16:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep- that's a plan .or you could just try to get a long with them . and stick together . like brothers should.
2006-10-22 04:18:59 · answer #6 · answered by tia c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not like your bros, I think it is OK to go your own way.
2006-10-22 07:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by laura g 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely feel that strongly about it, then do it. Sounds like your mind is made up.
HAPPY HALLOWEEN
2006-10-22 17:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by Hallon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be with the patient.a time will change everyones mind.bless them always.but dont leave them.
2006-10-22 04:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋