I've loved this woman for over 10 years. She is divorced.Proposed to her a couple of times but I've always gotten a no. The center of her life is raising her son who is now going through college. Meanwhile I've gotten into other relationships but I still see her every day at work and my heart goes out for her as she has a special place in it. Sometimes I feel foolish about holding on to this feeling but I can help admiring her and feeling for her. We've done projects together and I've always showed her a great deal of respect, Is platonic love really foolish? I dk but in spite in being in another relationship I always look forward to seeing her every day and keeping that small flame of love alive.
2006-10-21 21:06:40 · 19 answers · asked by latin-solomon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is the way i see this,
You will always love her, but if you have proposed to her more than once now she is not interested in you that way, she may love you as a friend but that is it and you are lucky to have that,, so think of it as a lucky thing to have such a great friend..
You need to stop pining over her,, GO out and date other women,, im sure you will meet someone equally as nice if not nicer that you will fall in love with,, and no im not saying overnite, You need to take your time,,
Love is a hard thing to let go of and dont ever let go of your love in your friendship, You will always have that and that is very special,, i have a similar situation.. but find the love that you will spend your life with instead of thinking someday she will say yes becasue that may very well not happen, and probally wont, im sorry..
If you give it time you will find the right one for you!! Good luck
2006-10-21 21:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 02:30:41 · answer #2 · answered by finnen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's neither wise or unwise. The choice is up to you as always to keep loving her. The greatest kind of love is the kind that asks for nothing in return. None of us can be that completely generous of course. So it's up to you how long you want to wait to see if she returns it.
10 years though, that is admirable.
2006-10-21 21:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jason D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It`s not at all wise.Becoz see, you know that women doesn`t love you,so why r you wasting ur whole life running behind her.You have lots of other things to do.I think it`s wise to forget her or just maintain a friendly relationship with her.
2006-10-21 21:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by julia beck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since here son is now going through college, you should stop and look for other, otherwise your love will disturb her life. Real love is she should not be disturbed and let her live at her discretion.
2006-10-21 21:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by pretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life, maybe she sees something wrong with you.
1.maybe you are a dork that puts on glasses \
2.maybe she doesnt like the way you dress put on something more stylish and expensive \
3.Maybe you stink then take a shover more often \
4. Maybe you didnt shave your beared \
Just think of something that pleases her..........
2006-10-21 21:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by joash2004 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's nature man! Sometimes the things we want most r the things we know we'll never get. Picture what you want and look for it somewhere else, trust me it'll find you. I hope this is helpful.
2006-10-21 21:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by abcde_s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sucks but ya gotta let it go.... unless your a gluten for punishment in which case you're headed in the right direction...
2006-10-21 21:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by sunray73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and sex are 2 different things ,you can love her and never have sex with her ,YOU DO KNOW THAT DONT YOU?platonic love is awesome.
2006-10-21 21:10:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One cannot help how he feels. You must, however, not let this "love " consume you. For the sake of all,(hers, your present other and yourself). try and move on.
2006-10-21 21:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋