I'm a 29&1/2yr old unmarried woman, a Chatrered Accountant by profession.I still haven't come across a man who loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I need a man's love at this stage of my life. Is it possible that I dont have a man's love in my destiny? If so, how should I cope up with it?
2006-10-21 20:56:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its very necessary u to have some one in ure life at this age. at least someone u can confine in to. i am sure u have love in ure destiny but it will come to u when its planned. but when it shall come it shall pay off all loss of ure life. so dont worry god shall bless u soon with some one who u deserve. so i think u r smiling by now.
2006-10-22 08:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by yourfreind_forlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you appear desperate, that will scare men off for sure. Be careful about that.
I noticed that you don't have a profile, or a blog. You need to put yourself out there a little bit. Don't worry about making a perfect impression. If you don't get the results you want, you can always change that stuff later, and try another approach. By hiding, you won't meet anyone.
I wonder if you're concerned that your status, as a professional woman might create a problem, because men will feel intimidated that you make more money than they do. That is a possibility, with some men. You just need to find the others.
You can find me easily enough. Get in touch if you want to talk.
2006-10-22 03:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by Allen Montgomery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why r u so upset about the fact that u haven't come across a man who loves u? Don't just panic around. May be the right time hasn't come yet. If u believe in destiny then u would agree that everything happens when the righttime comes for . May be the right time hasn't come yet. Remember God has plannings for everyones life. And as it is said dat "marriages are made in heaven". So don't get upset n wait for the right time . Bye n "ALL THE BEST".
2006-10-22 00:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We live in troubled times, what is love ? What does love mean to you, I am horrified as to what these people think love is, they are their genitals. Women have to be pretty, go through the Karma Sutra on the first date .... firstly they can't spell Karma Sutra let alone know what it is or have the patience or selflessness to please. You obviously have a brain and you are educated, hence you have some self worth and you know in order to get something you need to invest time, effort and a little heart. Initially of course there has to be a seed of possibility, which needs to be watered and nurtured. How often do you see couples actually look good and content together ? There is nothing worse than living with the enemy. Be patient and may you receive that little bit of luck that can set you off on the right track. Gentleman Geoffrey
2006-10-21 21:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good question!!
First 29.5 isn't old. By my account you've been in your profession for about 7 years.
When we go by "the standard" of who,what ,when and so on we set ourselves up for disappointment.We cannot make the "perfect" match come to us.I struggle with many different things like this because "if it's going to be it will be"right????can't really answer that.The bible also tells us we need to put forth some effort.Things don't come as easily as we want.
Only time will tell.But I would NOT want to look back and realize that the one I was "destined" to be with WAS at the party,store or anywhere else I would've been but I was at home on Yahoo trying to figure out what to do.
At least when you do meet that special someone,and you will,you'll have a solid foundation yourself being independent,having good career,etc....
As for me ...I keep my eyes open!
GOOD LUCK
P.S. Don't listen to your mother,sister or girlfriends and do what is popular.Exactly half (50%) are divorced.
2006-10-21 21:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by bob a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
presently visiting india.,just going through the website and figured i should answer ur concerned Q',? well, in most cases i have found that people who are more open minded are always searching for better and better answer to their Q?? leaving them with confussion and more complications..so my advise will be to look for Luv in some one who is straight forward to ur concerned Q's??and does not try to or pretends to be something that he is not..u be the judge and u shall find the right person in your life. if u need any clearification on this,.u may contact me at my email: somswn@yahoo.com. or at : friendly2friends@walla.com
good luck ..my friends call me shiva
2006-10-21 23:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by s w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Suku
I hv been echoing my emotions in yahoo answers for a lot of time as I am also looking for a soulmate ,but nobody responded ,if you think we can make up together then e-mail on hotchocredrose@yahoo.com by today itself, I am a Indian & I am a NRI ,rest is when u send me mail.
2006-10-21 21:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by hotchocredrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only 29, mellow out. If you come off as desperate then you will push guys away from you. You need to be happy in your own life first then seek out someone to share it with.
2006-10-21 21:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by malisimo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't see into your future so I can not honestly answer that. But if it is meant to be,it will be! Sometimes we are looking for someone to the point they walk right by us and we don't see them! Or our expectations are too high and they feel they can't meant your expectations. I've learned not to expect too much of anyone,that way you're not disappointed!
2006-10-21 21:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love and marriage are the games of destiny.it can happen to you either the very next moment or can happen to you at the age of 50 even.but it will definitely happen.i request you to visit an astrologer for this.
2006-10-22 00:04:03 · answer #10 · answered by ankita_amber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋