it may seem crazy but im not atracted to guys or girls.
should i go get a prostitute?
2006-10-21 20:25:16 · 33 answers · asked by james n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bad? No
Weird? Yes
Go to a prostitute and get laid. See if you like it. You won't know until you try it.
2006-10-21 20:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by TonyB 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
And why is being a virgin bad?!?!
If your happy, then why worry about it? It's no one else's business if your a virgin or not. Don't go to a prostitute just for the sake of it.
Sex can be great with the right person, someone you love. But it isn't the be all and end all of a relationship. So many people think sex is the most important thing in a relationship and they are wrong! Simply wrong! Every couple I know went at it hammer and tongs to start with but it becomes less and less important the longer your together.
So.....don't be in a hurry to lose it. There's nothing wrong with waiting till you want to do it.
2006-10-21 20:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by red260z 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am going to be totally honest with you, my now fiance was a virgin till he met me and he was 36, It didnt matter to me, I guess from what he said he knew in his heart when it was the right time and the right person,
There is nothing wrong with you, Maybe you should try dating different people and see how your body reacts, I wouldnt go to a prostitute, That is just trouble i believe but you have your own mind and can do what you want to.
One other thing Be yourself!! Dont worry about what others will think, including your friends, or anyone who knows this, your not strange, actually your special there is not many guys that are a virgin that long now a days, they just jump in the bed with anyone, So feel lucky in a way!!
Good luck to you and be happy and make yourself happy
2006-10-21 20:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by debbie 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
a prostitute wouldnt really constitute sex which by its nature is a mutually pleasurable experience. that would instead be a quick phuck. its up to you if you should get one or not. its not bad that your a virgin, maybe you have missed out on a part of life that is important, the function in its basic format is the reproduction of the human species regardless of the act itself being enjoyable or humdrum.
2006-10-21 21:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People have different sexual drives. Doesnt mean you are gay.
If you are not sexually attracted to anyone, why go to a prostitute?
I feel it would be a mistake to pursue a committed relationship with anyone unless that person knew in advance that a physical sex life is not likely to be in the cards.
I have known of people who were married, however, and by mutual agreement never had sex.
And, I have known of people caught in relationships with polar differences in sexual apetites. This sort of relationship leads to heartache.
I wish you well.
2006-10-21 20:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by hls 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would you go to a prostitute if you're not attracted to her?
It's not bad that you're a 41 year old virgin. I'm sure that once you are attracted to someone you will have sex with them. Maybe you need help to arise your sexuality.
2006-10-21 20:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by brand_new_monkey 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
well there's no law that says you have to have sex, so if you're not attracted to either men or women why have sex.... you'd prob feel disappointed if you went to a prostitute becuase it wouldnt mean anything to you.
There are people who dont feel any attraction to men or women, like a previous person said theyre known as asexuals, so youre not alone and theres nothing bad/weird about it...everyones different, just do what makes you happy
2006-10-21 20:47:48 · answer #7 · answered by ash1 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are what we call "Asexual". They are a funny bunch of people but more common than previously thought (apparently). If you've NEVER been attracted to guys or girls then yaknow. Look us asexual on google and join their community, see if you fit in.
Otherwise, give that prostitute a try.
2006-10-21 20:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by anabanana 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever thought of becoming a preist? There is a religion that and in need of a person like you!
If you don't have a sexual drive......why risk your health by getting laid by a prostitute?
I can see the head-lines now!
"41 YEAR OLD VIRGIN SUES CRACKY BETTY FOR INFECTING HIM WITH AIDS!!"
Just think if you did like it..........you could never have sex again?
ARRRR,.. ARRRRRR, ARRRRRRRR!!
2006-10-21 20:39:33 · answer #9 · answered by pirate 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How God must love you!Nothing wrong with being a virgin,contrary to some whorish ppl who think it is old fashioned & not "with it"!Come around my granddaughter & tell her to not be a virgin any longer, or my grandsons,because it isn't cool,I'll lay you little blankety blanks out & go to jail for it!You will see what a REAL lay is!With a fat lip & a little more enlightenment!
2006-10-21 20:28:05 · answer #10 · answered by Frogmama 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋