2006-10-21 19:39:56 · 14 answers · asked by Daniel W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends upon how you feel about her. It means being honest with yourself. Would you want her back because you are lonely? Bad reason & you would be wasting time in which you could be pursuing others & finding the right person. Don't ever give up. I wasted years of my life hanging onto someone who I knew wouldn't be good for me. I think I believed being with him was better than being alone & having to get back into the dating scene. I was wrong about that & wasted some of my best years on the wrong person.
Why did she leave in the 1st place? What has changed? Is she coming back to you because something else didn't work out and she is "comfortable" with you? Is she confusing like with love? Or she likes you & wants to believe it's love. Just some questions to consider.
I don't think it's enough to "follow your heart." It's important to "follow your head" too. If both comes together, go for it. If this doesn't work out for you, be patient. When you meet the right person you will have no doubts.Trust me and good luck to you. PS: Don't make your decision upon how good the sex is. If you decide not to see her again you will find that sex with someone you love will be the ultimate experience.
2006-10-21 20:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose on from these choices. 1. Sleep with her then decide whether you feel the same...2. Decide you do not feel the same and still sleep with her...3. Decide that there is a reason she is an ex and move on with your life no harm no foul no sex. 4. Decide you feel the same and get back with her
2006-10-21 19:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Double GEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depins on why the to of u brok up this is a real tough call if you love her an still got feelings fro say it back but if your allready in a happy relaship whith somebody eles just say i had strong feelings fro you once but our love ended an iam in a new relaship now u see the last thing you what to do is to hurt there feeling so just we colud be great friends
2006-10-21 19:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a tough call, it depends on how you feel. If you feel the same way as you did while you were with her then take the offer ASAP. If she hurt you before and she wants you back, dont take that risk. You dont deserve that. Just be careful.
good luck honey!
2006-10-21 19:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how you feel... is the relationship worth trying again or did she get rejected and fall back to you? If it means alot and you are truely meant to be then things will come together but you have alot of feelings to sort out
2006-10-21 19:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by deedlman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello dan dan!
let me give U a peice of advice
..not really...
well...if ur gf had broken up with u ask her y do u want to come back??
when she gives u thy answer thy should stare into her eyes...if she looks away and ahs the look of annoyence...dont say yes...on thy otherhand if she looks into ur eyes and say her answer with the look of sorryness than it is thy decesion...
wat u say will affect urlife and hers too
u can say no"make her feel bad if she trully does love u
or
u can say yes"make her feel happy"
if she breaks up again for no apparent reson the next day...well...dont kill me
2006-10-21 19:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha i'm in the same situation except i'm the ex girlfriend :] (god i hope you're not my ex)
well if you like her back then get back with her
if not tell her you just wanna be friends coz u dont wanna ruin ur friendship. good luck!
2006-10-21 19:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The movie Disturbia with Shia Labeouf
2016-05-21 21:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD TELL HER TO MAKE UP YOUR MIND( IN A NICE WAY). IF YOU STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER AND DON'T AVE A WOMAN THEN GO FOR IT. IF YOU DON'T HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER AND HAVE ANOTHER WOMAN, TELL HER I'M SORRY BUT YOU'VE HAD YOUR CHANCE, NOW IT'S TIME FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO GET WHAT YOU THREW AWAY.
2006-10-21 19:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by MR. SHY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends on how u feel bout her. do u still love her? well if you do then ge bak together with her but if you dont, explain to her y you dont love ehr anymore. byeeee
2006-10-21 19:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by Tessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋