Drinking, gambling, drugs, the same old lessons that I can't seem to learn and now I'm 30. Too old. Must grow up or I'm going to kill myself.
2006-10-21 19:34:11 · 11 answers · asked by dudeeeeeeeesssssssss 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
maybe you're no t mistaken
2006-10-22 20:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know , my dad says that you have a long while to make the mistakes that you often make, to explore different things you like to do, and soon you will land and be somebody and contribute to your family, your children, and to the society.
It's okay that you have messed up a few times. That's life for you. But the important thing is that you must grow out of it and realize that it isn't how you want to be.
My dad said it is not good if you keep messing up after 30. I think that makes sense. After all, time does pass you by if you don't make much of it.
No one can change a person. Only the person can change himself. YOU want to change because you realize you need to.
YOu must realize that you need to DO THINGS NOW to affect your future positively.
Or. You can be 40, then 50 and doing the same thing.
It is not too late now because you just turned 30. Just start working on changes. Good luck to you. Use your support system. They are there if you are serious.
2006-10-21 19:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by denh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 07:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you turned over a new leaf and found the same old thing. Next time you decide to turn over a new leaf get under a different tree.
2006-10-21 19:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know i do, i find comfort in doing such things as drinking as an escape from the real world! I finally had to realize that I just need to face my problems, and they don't lie in the bottom of a vodka fifth!
2006-10-21 19:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by Eryn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The definition of "insanity" is to do something over and over again always expecting the outcome to be different, but it's always the same!
2006-10-22 08:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One positive thing in you that you are knowing about what you are doing.
only you yourself can help you.nobody will help you.there are so many thngs which gives you far more better pleasure!!!!!!!!!!!!donot fetch such silly and cheap way of relaxation .try to meditate ,its a treasure of peasure that never ends.........
firm descision and God's grace can help you.otherwise you have a very short life.we can say.
2006-10-21 19:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by jvjoshi2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join AA or NA, they will teach you valuable skills that you can apply to all aspects of your life....for the better. Good Luck.
2006-10-21 19:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by Diamond in the Rough 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are not learning from the mistakes you are making.
2006-10-21 19:35:27 · answer #9 · answered by rompecabezas_sin_resolver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have an addictive personality. Try counseling. It can help plus they have meds now that can help with this.
2006-10-21 19:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by lucy02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋