that the people who he has to pay hes bills to has been on him about it and he doesnt have the money....well i mean he works all the time i thought i could handle it but i'm to the point where i'm not sure anymore...all of hes time goes into workin and school and a little time for me...i love him i really do and wish i could help him out on the bills but i dont have money...do you think i should get of the relationship or be a real g/f and try to support him and do everything i can do for him...? i dont want to sound selfish but i mean theres no time for me anymore...so wat do ya'll think...??get out of try to be supportive...?if i cant deal wit this thing how would i ever deal wit bein on my on...please help me...
2006-10-21 19:31:49 · 5 answers · asked by hesgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get out NOW. It isn't going to get any better and if he really cared about you, he would try to spend more time with you. Trust me, he can make the time, he just doesn't want to. I feel for you, I was just in your position. I got fed up with it and broke up with him on his b-day (it was the last straw after all the promises). Be wise and do the same. Don't torture yourself.
2006-10-21 19:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be tough, but if you love him like you say you do, then do ANYTHING you possibly can to support him. If he is working respect that, any guy would rather be with their girlfriend. But working is a stage of life everyone has to go though, so respect it cuz guys like yours dont always come around. It's not selfish, just next time let him know how you feel, and that you wil do anything to make sure he is okay.
good luck hun!
2006-10-22 02:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask then get out, Just because you are female don't make it your task to help or manage him or his problems. He will work through it with or with out you. He has no time to give you show some respect for his efforts and back off slowly and gently.
2006-10-22 02:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out. if he has no time for you, doesn't matter how much u love him/he loves you. eventually, the distance will destroy your relationship. By staying in it, all you're doing is dragging out the pain.
2006-10-22 02:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by You'll Never Take Me Alive!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be surprised if he was cheating. Call Cheaters and have them follow him or something. Maybe I'll see you on TV.
2006-10-22 02:35:21 · answer #5 · answered by ks_stud_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋