I mean, sometimes there is strong physical attraction but I know a relationship would not work. Do you ever give into your passions, forget relationship, and just do it? Also, how does a guy ask for sex in a way that you will respond positively when you know that is all he wants from you?
2006-10-21 19:25:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No we don't have to be friends before we do it. yes I did, but now I'm in a very successful relationship (that's how it started really but he was more hopefull about a relationship). Just start kissing me and pull off my shirt, and I may just "give in", but if they say no it means no don't push it.
2006-10-21 19:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by sweet heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to just being friends with benefits sometimes it can work as long as both parties agree that there is nothing that can come outta a relationship between the two people otherwise just go out there and get stupid drunk and find someone looking for nothing more than a 1 night stand and make sure that no names or phone # are used. But make sure that you and the other person uses protection and yeah it does take 2 to be safe
2006-10-22 02:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no we do not gotta b friends b 4 we can b lovers sometimes attraction is all you knead for some good love making and some good old fashion sex yes give into it its great and you dont ask for it it just happens the girl should no that there will b nothing more than just sex but b carefull you just might b the one who falls in love and gets hurt and remember use a rubber safe sex is the best sex good luck
2006-10-22 02:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by jeannie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be up front with her in this situation. Don't go into it acting like you really like her and then have sex. You don't necessarily have to say I just want to have strictly casual sex, are you up for it? You can casually bring it up in conversation. Talk about how you love being single, but you miss the sex portion. You'd love it if you could find somebody who felt the same way and didn't have to end up together just because they have sex. If she's receptive to that idea then you can go for it. If she seems slightly offended, she's not the right one to do this with. If a girl has feelings for you and you have sex with her having no intentions of a relationship, it can be really hurtful and damaging to her self esteem. Make sure she's on board before you do that. And if you do end up having casual sex, for God's sake use protection.
2006-10-22 02:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by ammellisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women don't have an issue with casual sex so just find out what she thinks about it. Be honest and tell her that you don't think a long term relationship is likely but that you're really attracted to her and would like to know what it's like to be with her. She might go for it.
2006-10-22 02:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah there might just be an attraction, but if you just want to hit it and leave that's not the way to be. You need to be friends and let some sparks form from there. There really is no polite way to ask a girl to have sex with you. You could just get hot and heavy and then let it happen, you just have to hav the balls to do so. good luck sweetie!
2006-10-22 02:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahem...If it's only physical attraction then you are just wasting your time. If the woman gets pregnant and you don't know her family history and such, then you have just gotten yourself a baby with a stranger.
Be friends, then best friends, then boyfriend and girlfriend and wait for it...MARRIAGE...it's something that needs to be done.
There are men with 20 children with 20 different women and you think he can provide for 41 mouths? If you want to be a gentleman to many women, then start acting like one.
Women who want sex everyday are using LOVE as a ploy to get pregnant or just have pleasure. They are just using you. Want to be a man or do you want be a toy? Your choice...
:) :) :) :) :)
2006-10-22 02:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by Princess Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've given into passion and eh only if im aware that the guy doesnt want anything moer than just sex..so buddy if you want to ask a girl to be your booty call just tell her..lay the cards on the table, some are into it and some are not so even if yuo tell em you will get both negative and positive feedback from the ladies..maybe you should try a dating service round your area that have girls that are just looking for sex..for example eh matchdoctor.com..or something..good luck..
2006-10-22 02:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always best to be friends also!That way you know how to treat & respect eachother even better than just being in love!
God said for us not to be uneaqually yoked,which means we should share the same morals & lifestyles,not that ppl of different races should not marry as some ppl think it means!PPL are PPL worldwide & we all share the same emotions,but not the same morals or beliefs.
Two ppl may be Baptists or any other religion,but they may have very different ideas on living arrangements & even morality.
2006-10-22 02:31:03 · answer #9 · answered by Frogmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl really. I know some girls who won't go have sex until they're boyfriend/girlfriend and I know some girls who just want to have fun and whanot and will go for one night stands.
Unless your insanely mind-blowing hot, I don't see how you'll be able to convince a girl to just have sex minus the relationship. Sorry!
2006-10-22 02:30:42 · answer #10 · answered by pacific_crush 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋