I am 19 and single guy. I have been trying to get a girlfriend for like forever,but noone takes me seriously and it is kind of getting my mental, emotional side. I am depressed lately.I have never had a girlfriend and would like to know, is this normal? Because most people I know have someone and if i see a cute girl i know 100% there taken. So I quit asking girls out, will there be some light to the end of this tunnel? :(
2006-10-21 19:06:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey!! I'm a 19 year old female and I've never been in a long term relationship. However, I've dated but never had that "connection" with a guy yet. Don't worry about it, you are still young and sound like a great guy. BUT, do not ever think that a girl is "out of your league" or already taken b/c she is cute/pretty. You know how many pretty girls out there are lonely and boyfriendless because every guy thinks she is already taken and does not have the guts to approach her and ask her out?? God has the right girl in mind for you, just be patient, enjoy life and God bless you!!! :)
2006-10-21 19:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to relax. You might feel like having a girlfriend is the most important thing in the world, but it's really not. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. But until you reach it, just enjoy being by yourself. And be confident, don't let all the rejection get you down. If a girl isn't interested, don't take it personally, as there could be a million reasons why. Just calm down, and focus your attention on something else. Just give it time, your only 19.
2006-10-21 19:11:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'll be brutally honest. You're probably not very good looking are you? I mean, you could have the worst personality in the world, yet still get your dick wet if you were good looking. And it sounds like not having a girlfriend is really bothering you. So sooner or later you are going to get off of this damn computer and start working on those biceps and getting a six pack. Tanning doesn't hurt either. If you are hot, the girls will want you. And don't worry about a relationship until you know you can please a woman. I didn't have a real girlfriend until my senior year in high school. But before that I started working out. I started getting noticed by girls, and I underwent a personality change. I kind of turned into a ********, honestly. But girls eat that **** up believe it or not.
2006-10-21 19:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by ks_stud_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there will be a light at the end of the tunnel! do you know if these cute girls are really taken? or are you just sayin "oh shes cute, but i bet she has a bf? cause if your doing that then your noit trying hard enough!. how come noone takes you seriously? are you immature or somehing? im 19 too and there are alot of people at my job who are in their 20's and still single! your not the only one out there who is liek this. dont be discouraged by them they wont bite ;-) just ask you firednds if they know any girls and possibly hook you guys up on a blind date or something. dont be depressed either! its bad for yout health =D be happy!
good luck!
youll get a girl in the future.! dont worry =)
2006-10-21 19:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you wanted girls to answer, but I was in the same boat, there is light at the end of th tunnel I will say, do not assume a girl is taken, if you are thinking "Oh she must be taken" so are a large number of other guys. she may be single and have as much trouble finding a guy as you are getting a girl, that is how I met one of my girlfriends.
2006-10-21 19:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by daggermouth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get depressed it's not worth it...
you are still young i know guys who were 22 and didnt have their first gf yet.. i mean i understand you can get lonely but try not to get depressed b/c someone might be watching you... or something adn you dont wan tto have a frown....
stay happy ...girls like confident guys.. and if you are depressed you wont show a lot of confidence
2006-10-21 19:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depressed is a turn off lift your head up smile and keep asking make the girl your asking feel like an angel make her laugh and trust me sooner or later one will say yes
confidence is numver one to smile and say no problem when a girl says no and joke with somthing like "i was pretty sure a cutie like you was already off the market but i needed to ask or id be thinking about you all day"" really works ! when i broke up with my ex i looked up the guy that said that to me and weve been together since
2006-10-21 19:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by The_Darker_Side_of_Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never fear my friend, you will get your turn. For some, it just takes longer. You might want to try college if you are not there yet. It's a good place to meet a lot of girls.
2006-10-21 19:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by Seikilos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am like in the some boat as you dude! So i understand fully. I would just wait until the right one comes along. You'll know when it happens! That's what i've been told from past experience....
2006-10-21 19:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get a girlfriend. This happened to my cousin, he didn't get a girl until he was 25. You just have to be willing to put yourself out there.
2006-10-21 19:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋