I'm in love and it scares me to death! I can't sleep without him, he has to spray his colone on my extra pillow so I can get some sleep, and I am the happiest when I'm in his arms. I don't know why I'm scared. It's not like he's asking me to marry him. Why am I so afraid? I'm not afraid of losing him I know he loves me as much as I love him. So why am I afraid?
2006-10-21 19:03:14 · 5 answers · asked by sweet heart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because it is a big step knowing that you want to spend the rest of your life with him and that you can have him its a really big step that you may find that you are not scared but you are just worried about it. you need to look deep in your heart and see what it says. i felt the same way with my girl and i moved her in and know we are happy together and we are both sleeping good as can be now. it was the best thing that i have ever done.
2006-10-21 19:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Earlie on in Any relationship(Especially if there is that Bond you speak of) You tend to go through this dependence stage!
Just like you mentioned!
I will eventually pass,as you become more secure and Mature as an Individual!
2006-10-22 02:07:08 · answer #2 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the feeling of insecurity because you feel that you are out of control. And the fear of emptiness in case you lose him. Don't worry, it'll all go away once you date a bit longer and you start feeling more secure.
2006-10-22 02:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by G T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely, it's not really fear. It is simply the empty feeling you have when a major part of you is gone. It feels a lot like fear.
2006-10-22 02:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by drummer4justus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are afraid, I think you are just really in love. You lucky girl you.
2006-10-22 02:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by Lydjos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋