Im a teenager and all my friends have bfs. I really really want 1! im fairly attractive or so ive been told. I always have a crush on someone and i reckon i could get with them if i knew some skills and how to ask them out.
2006-10-21 19:00:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess im not that desparate and no i do not treat guys bad. thank you for posting
2006-10-21 19:06:18 · update #1
im a bit of a shallow person, im sorry if thats hard to cope with me being desparate. ive had like 3 before except they werent serious and didnt last long. :(
2006-10-21 19:23:40 · update #2
You want a bf because your friends all have bfs?!?!? Are us guys some sort of pet for you?
2006-10-21 19:03:07 · answer #1 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being "deperate" is NOT your answer!
Honey, just be yourself, have fun and try to engage yourself in groups where you'll have the opportunity to get a b/f.
My friendly piece of advice is that you need to be happy with yourself first and foremost! A man cannot "make you happy"!
A man in your life should "complete" your happiness! You should not "need" an man, but "want" one!
I hope all this makes sense! I'm 43 and still looking for Mr. Right. I've had a LOT of expereinces and learn from each one of them.
I am at the age now where I know what I look for and won't settle for less.
Think about what you want in a relationship - this will also help you get the right one. Don't go out with just anyone - be picky! In the long run, you'll be much better off!
I know it's hard when all your friends have b/f's, but believe me, one day you'll see, it's all worth it when you take your time and follow your heart! All my friends are either married or have a significant other and it doesn't bother me one bit, b/c I'm happy with my own life, my independence and who I am.
MY Mr. Right and YOURS is out there - be patient and in the end, it will all be worth it, I promise! You are SO young and have plenty of time!!!!!
GOOD LUCK, Sweetie!
2006-10-22 02:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by penwrite5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the.....?
Do you consider boyfriends to be some kind of trophy?
You want one because your girlfriends have one?
Wrong reason my dear.
If you concentrate on being yourself, there will be a guy who notices you and you will know by the way he looks at you. Maybe he will pass a note or just plain ask you to "hang out".
Most boys will like a girl who seems confident and self assured. Don't let on if you are anxious it makes you look desperate and that is a turn off.
2006-10-22 02:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by mindbender - seeker of truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like a guy, and think he likes you, just ask him if he wants to hang out or go to the movies sometimes. He'll definately be flattered and it could lead to a bf/gf relationship.
2006-10-22 02:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jilljill:) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you've got to learn to be complete and happy without a boyfriend. Then, when you're at that place, you'll be ready for the right guy to come along.
2006-10-22 02:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desperation is a bad thing - always without exception - go to bed - everything that's right comes when it's supposed to
2006-10-22 02:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by likeitis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey listen, u really really dont wanna rush or go with the trend on the matter of getting a bf!!! u'll end up hurting ur self REALLY REALLY bad trust me...take time to find the right one. i had to find out the hard way... ;'(
2006-10-22 02:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stare at the guy you like& if he turns and sees you turn your head as fast as you can. People can feel others watching, if he says something in class do a cutesy giggle, like what he likes.See what he likes to see if you would even like him.
2006-10-22 02:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by Blue Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush. Talk normally to the males. I think you should come across someone who shall reciprocate your feelings. Wish you all the best.
2006-10-22 02:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by Abhijit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't pressure yourself with getting a boyfriend. enjoy life the way it is with out one. Don't let your friends life run yours. once you got the hang of being single... your man will come when you don't expect it.
2006-10-22 02:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by ms. butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋