Ok- this is kind of long. I got pregnant and had a baby when I was 19. I ended up leaving the "sperm donor" of my baby because he was cheating and he never tried to get back into her life. I met my husband and when my daughter was 2 I went to court and had my ex's rights terminated and my husband adopted my daughter. He has caused so many problems for me that I don't feel I can EVER move back to my home state. He has spred lies about me and my husband, he sends me messages (I have them saved), he finds me everytime! Its gotten so bad that I had to make my phone number not listed! Is there anything I can do to make him leave me alone? He has a bad history and I think he is still on parole- don't know if that helps anyone. Please let me know what you think. I appreciate all REAL answers. Again- thanks.
2006-10-21 18:46:44 · 8 answers · asked by Tammy 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
You should talk to a lawyer. There must be something. Restraining order, sue him for harrassment, or something?
I also hope you and your husband keep a firearm for safety. If I were a woman in your position, I would carry one in my purse and make sure you know how to use it.
Good luck.
2006-10-21 18:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by Uncle Pennybags 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 07:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most states have laws against stalking or harassment. I doubt if his antics are as far reaching as you think. I'm sure there are very few people who have heard of his lies, you are simply blowing it out of proportion. Talk to your local police department or get an attorney and find out what your legal options are.
2006-10-21 18:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by Lola 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to report the harassment to the police . get a restraining order. every time he violates the restraining order have him arrested. sue him for slander. you probably wont get much but he might stop the nonsense. have your husband beat the living crap out of him if he gets close enough.
2006-10-21 18:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to cease and desist or you will contact the local police dep. where he lives as well as where you live and file charges for harassment. Tell him that you have all his msgs saved and you will use it to pursued your case.
If that warning fails, go ahead and file charges with your local police Dep.
Good Luck
2006-10-21 18:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by spanishflyin_tx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as he doesnt break the law there is nothing you can do he is probally mad because you cut his rights off. you have a child together so he is involved whether you like it or not. so your gonna have to deal whith it
2006-10-21 19:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by larry n 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lawyer
restraining order
police
return trip to prison
2006-10-21 18:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by Maniac Number One 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get him locked up...when u hav the proof y have you not done tat in 7!!!yrs??? go to the cops
2006-10-21 18:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by mihika 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋