how long would you wait to have sex with someone you DON'T like? i mean, sorry i don't mean to be rude but, sometimes men can pretend they like a girl just to get in bed with her. so for example lets say you want to have sex with some girl but you only want sex and you don't have any feelings for her but you PRETEND to like her just so you can get her to have sex with you, how long would you wait? im just really curious. BUT what if she says to you that she won't do it with you.....would you still keep trying? thanks
2006-10-21 18:42:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha. ok. well, a lot of people say to wait, but let's get real here, huh? You'll know if a guy is real with u. and if not, then there is such a thing as a fling. and no. a guy who would stay with u after u saying no means that he can't get it ne where else. still, flings are fun. and i know girls have them.
2006-10-21 18:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by poor_mans_hero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not the kind of guy to do this, but if I could see it happening as soon as possible so that neither person can become as attached. I personally don't want to get it on with anybody I don't like, I'm kind of picky. I know guys that will screw anything with legs and a vagina. Most of them won't keep trying if they get the message right away. But that would let them know, at the same time, that they have to make it seem like they like the girl, so it's kind of a catch 22. If you know this already, end it, unless you're really just in it for the sex too.
2006-10-21 18:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by xxplalmxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I want to apologize for your being in this position...
IMHO, I think it's more important whether you like sex or not AND if you are reactive to this male in question... a selfish lover is no great reward.
Men are just as different as women...
what's true for one may be the opposite with the next...
however, with most of us men you have to break down the walls to get to know us...
what women want before is what is generally only possible after... (another cruel joke on all of us)
We men generally know who we are but, by design, only open up to you after...
but your right, the other kind of guys are out there too.
Nothings fair in love or war...
Best wishes...
2006-10-21 19:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jesus H. Zeitgeist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy answer babe, it's called the "Friend Clause", soory but we will keep the impression that we are a shoulder to cryy on or someone jus to talk to as long as it takes jus to get a taste of the sunday sample. Now as for long as it will take, depends on the guy. It is possible that we have many other alternatives but jus want some loving. As for me, I'd keep trying as long as I wasnt in a deep relationship, jus for the hell of it.
2006-10-21 18:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by acritic01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only speak for myself, but I wouldn't touch a woman that I didn't like just because I want some sex. Too much respect for myself. I don't like to tell myself or others, "Can't stand her, but the sex is great!". If I can't stand her, I wouldn't waste another moment of my time dealing with her.
2006-10-21 18:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should be up front with this boy and tell him you do not want to have sex with him. Stand up for your body and tell him that he will not use you for his selfish gain. Explain to him that if you get to marriage stage then he might have intercourse with you as long as it was in good and loving way. NOt just to get rid of the itch
2006-10-21 18:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by stevieg639 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how hot she is...the hotter she is and the wilder she is in bed, the longer a man will stay. If she says outright that she won't do it with you, it depends how much of a playa he is, if he doesn't got game, he will try until you give in or he gives up.
2006-10-21 18:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by want it bad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would NOT keep trying if I wasn't getting ANYTHING. If you are jerkin this guy off, he thinks he has a chance to get in them pants. If you want to know if this guy likes you or not, then don't do **** with him other than make out. When the hands get involved, he thinks he has a chance.
2006-10-21 18:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by ks_stud_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't wait, nor do I date people I don't like.
But if I did do this, I would have 10 other girls in the wings, so while you are boring me to death, I would be getting some from all the rest of your friends.
2006-10-21 18:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys will wait years. Look if you know this move on and stop giving him attention.
2006-10-21 19:20:06 · answer #10 · answered by Danthony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋