2006-10-21 18:39:54 · 6 answers · asked by fairy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would wait at least 6 months to introduce them. If it doesn't work out with him and then you start dating other men, you don't want to give her the impression that people just come and go from your life... protect her, and teach her the best you can. You also don't know this guys intentions or if he is truly a good guy. Wait a while.
2006-10-21 18:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait a while until you are sure he is long term potential. I just went through something similar with my ex. He has 2 kids, 2 and 4 years old and I met them a few days after meeting him. Sadly things didn't work out between us. Now the girls are asking for me all the time and want to see me and talk to me, but the ex won't let me be in their lives if I"m not dating him.
Make sure that he will be in your life for the long term before letting her meet him or know about him, and when you do introduce him, introduce him as a friend, so that she knows him as mommy's friend not boyfriend.
2006-10-22 20:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by SAAngel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait at least 3-4 months before introducing anyone to your kids. Make sure he is long-term potential before introducing him to any children you may have. Bond with each other first before bonding with the children. It is good for everyone involved. For you, for him and for your child.
2006-10-22 01:57:37 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always wait at least six months, to be sure where your relationship is going, or if its going at all! Too many boyfriends will just confuse and/or scare a child. Plus, it won't make you look very good to the child. Tread slowly.
2006-10-22 01:47:18 · answer #4 · answered by Justjam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no set rule for this although I would say the sooner the better.
2006-10-22 01:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait to make sure that you and him are serious you don't want your daughter to get attached to him and you break up right away. you should talk about your daughter to him and make sure he is good with kids. your daughter should always be first.
2006-10-22 01:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by jam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋