or am i unlucky fellow :(
2006-10-21 17:37:09 · 6 answers · asked by Mickey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since you are so sure, why are you courting disaster? Quit loving. That's the remedy for you.
2006-10-21 22:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can be a pain in the a**. And dislikeing yourself is normal becuase I'm the same way, but you gotta know something though. Since love is the hardest thing to ever aquire in the history of human life, you should be happy the way you are. Sounds stupid but if your happy with the way you are, other lovers will look at how you are toward yourself and the ones that like what you do or enjoy how you treat yourself offtime, you will get a better chance at it.
If you ever get a date, know this too. You and her is gonna fight at some point in time, so ya gotta know how you gonna resolve it. Going on walks when you have said your argument on what issue that was brought up will cool you down and have some time apart for the moment to chill out. Sometimes you would come back wondering what the hell was yall mad at each other for.
Another thing to keep in mind is that you should find someone that does 2 major things (which is trust and respect). There is gonna be that certain perosn, the main thing is to not give up on it.
If ya wanna talk on the messenger thing-a-ma-bob to help you out later on, just e-mail becuase i know how this is and it can be solved.
2006-10-21 17:51:32 · answer #2 · answered by phsyco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luck has very little to do with love. Disasters can be recognized before they start. I recommend you start doing some research. Books on boundaries, books on happiness, books on healthy relationships. Especially Christian authors of renown. Go to a Bible book store and ask the clerk for these topics, they'll be happy to help. A little time in church will make a big difference too. This is the last institution in America that has any understanding of the value of marriage and relationships, and not all of them!
http://judgeright.blogspot.com
2006-10-21 17:44:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! U R not unlucky!
U are lucky becoz you have given your love a more priority then your self!
But truly, will your love ever survive without U?
So take care of yourself too!
2006-10-21 17:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let love take its own sweet time to happen to you.think about other matters of our life and you will find happiness there.
2006-10-22 00:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by ankita_amber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is love. however, this love is lowering your selfesteem. you need therapy.
2006-10-22 09:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋