Ok, there is this girl, she is in the same class as me for the past two years and we play in he same band ,the same instrument. Its a little awkward because dhe is like super smart and stuff and it would feel pretty awkward in class if i ask her out and become a couple, if she accepts.
so i don't know if its a good idea to ask her now or even how to do it
2006-10-21 17:34:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
did you ever stop to thing she might be thinking the same thing about you?
faint heart never won fair maiden.
2006-10-21 17:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Hannah's Grandpa 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Hi Didier. First of all, work your way up to asking her out. Try talking to her a little at a time. Try some gentle teasing, now don't be obnoxious and hurt her feelings don't say she needs to lose weight or anything insulting, but If you are talking about classes or grades you could say something like "Ya, right, like you really have to study hard" or if she sits next to you in band tell her to move her chair over so she doesn't show you up. Even if it's not true. It will drive her nuts I promise. And don't ask her out face to face, ask her for her phone number, tell her you'll give her a call sometime. And then do it! It's always embarrassing to get shut down face to face. Trust me I've been there.
2006-10-22 01:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if you two have been in the same class..do you know if she feels the same way about you? first you need to know that, take some time to get to know her and maybe ask her on a lunch date or something. know her outside of class. and if both of you feel the same for each other than pursue on trying to be a couple. good luck~!
2006-10-22 00:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing that matters for you now is to ask her out so don't be ashamed,you march right up to her.close your eyes and tell her how you feel about her and ask her out.you'l find it the best way to attract her attention.but becareful not to be scared cause if you happen to scare.she will not be attracted and you are finished!
2006-10-22 00:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by Moody B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smart girls like guys, too. Give her a chance. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Ask if she wants to practice music with you after school.
2006-10-22 00:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, tell her you like her and ask her out. Life (and youth) are too short to waste with ******** self-doubt. Go for it.
2006-10-22 00:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT!!
The worst that can happen is that she will say no.
If you really like her.ASK HER
2006-10-22 00:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by rosbif 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're in the wrong section buddy
2006-10-22 00:37:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to God about it.
2006-10-22 00:36:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋