I'm nearly to the stage where I just want to leave her and be single.
What do you think?
2006-10-21 17:34:29 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give her my phone number
2006-10-24 17:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The question is why don't you want to have sex? Are you very young or not into premarital sex? If so then find someone who respects your need to wait. The friendship is the most important part of any relationship anyway. And if she's horny, she can alway get a vibrator. Not the same, but it can help. Whatever the case be good to yourself and don't stick with people unless they respect where you are at and what you need.
2006-10-21 17:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by kim b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend wont take no for an answer, then I think we know that she isnt mature enough to be in a relationship with you, break it off now and find a girl that can keep her panties on until the right time. That is when you are ready.
2006-10-21 17:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by h2gj87 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you think is right. If you're not comfortable, then don't do it... either way, make a decision and live with it.
But, always remember to ask yourself, "what if she get's pregnant?" And, "can I take care of a woman and a child at this point in my life."
I don't know your age, but if you're under 20 the answer to both those questions is probably NO.
Good Luck.
2006-10-21 17:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by John Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to sit her down and tell her that you do not want to have sex any time soon, and if she does not respect your boundaries then there will be no future for you two. If she decides to stay in the relationship then hopefully, she will respect your boundaries. However, make it clear that if she acts up again you'll end things immediately.
2006-10-21 17:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i kinda think that is cute.. i wish all my ex's were like u n maybe they wouldnt be ex's.. lol tell her that you dont want to ruin everything u two have. love is presiocous. nothing can replace the feeling's u get when ur with the person u love. if she doesnt stop then it might not have been right. look deep inside ur self for the answer's but i think if you pray for an answer youll get one.. God should be the one you turn to!!!
goodnight
~Giggles~
2006-10-21 17:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself. At the risk of sounding square, anybody can have sex. I mean, we all have that equipment...but cultivating a meaningful relationship is more challenging and important. I don't blame you for questioning the relationship. Remember, if you do something because you are forced into it, you will end up resenting her.
2006-10-21 17:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you should be proud that she is a willing chick and not fridgit like some women are. Hell I'd give my right arm for a woman to keep giving me sex when she wanted too. Not many women out there are wanting to give you sex or begging you to jump her bones. If you get tired of her send her my way.
2006-10-21 17:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by John H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the relationship. If you want to save sex for marriage that is a great thing...find someone who agrees with you. If you just don't want it with her...you need a new gal anyway!
2006-10-21 17:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by yakimablueyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that is not the kind of girl u want and u have to move on , and find yourself a decent more respectable girl, i'm sure it will break her heart for a bit , but it will also teach her not to be that way no more
2006-10-21 17:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by cc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you would be better off single. If she keeps pushing you for it, and you give in, imagine what the next thing that she keeps asking for will be!
Good Luck!
2006-10-21 17:37:27 · answer #11 · answered by chattingnut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋