I have never had sex before, but have been thinking how badly I want to please the guy that I do choose. Are guys dissapointed or excited to sleep with virgins? Can the girl be on top the first time or will something get injured and burst badly on the woman. If you are a virgin can you actually enjoy it and have an orgasm, or is it 100% pain the entire first act? Appreciate answers from both males and females. Thanks!
2006-10-21 17:12:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 24, i don't feel any pressure to have sex, but have started looking for a boyfriend, no luck yet, so i just sit around and watch pornos, no i am not ugly, i live in a town with low class men and am waiting until i move.
2006-10-21 17:57:24 · update #1
i have alot of sex and it still hurts me been on top.......to enjoy ur first time try been on the bottom......dont worry bout pleasing the guy its ur first time let him please you!!!!!! i didnt even have any pain the first time i had sex so everyones different just go with the flow....also i heard that guys hate sleeping with virgins unless of course there virgins....but thats just wat my friends say so ur man culd be different.........goodluck once u pop u cant stop....ENJOY IT
2006-10-21 17:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jadems 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It gives her more control over the experience. Intercourse should be built up to over time. You should be more concerned about your own experience and whether your partner treats you well. Guys are generally excited to sleep with anyone.
If you have sex with a young, inexperienced man, he's likely to be quick; and it will not be a particularly enjoyable experience for either of you. Getting good at sex takes time and experience--like anything else new.
70% of women aren't able to have an orgasm with only intercourse. They need other stimulation--oral or digital (fingers) by partner or self, etc.--to have an orgasm. Intercourse is not required to have an orgasm.
Ian Kerner's books are very instructive for men and women to learn to pleasure each other. They are:
She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman; and
He Comes Next: The Thinking Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man.
You can do some research into the topic and practice on yourself to know what the sexual experience is like. Look at Ian Kerner's and others' address at:
www.coaches.aol.com
Men will tell you many things to try and get you to have sex without a condom--don't fall for it. They'll wear one, if it means they'll get to have intercourse. If they won't, then you don't need to be sleeping with them to start with.
NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER, EVER HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX UNTIL YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP, AND YOU AND YOUR PARTNER ARE READY--AND HAVE DECIDED TOGETHER--TO HAVE A CHILD.
Be mature about it.
2006-10-21 17:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by KIT J 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-15 07:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey u shouldn't do it for any guy. you should do it b/c ur in love and you want to experience making love together. not b/c a ***** presures u to do it. u sound so young honey like life jennings says think before you let it go. im waiting and im 18 and my boyfriend is irrisistable i should get a medal
2006-10-21 17:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by disiple in training 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i have no idea, but i heard it's very painful and your first time won't be enjoyable at all, the 3rd time supposedly will be good, but i was wondering about that too.
2006-10-21 17:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by Gorgeous 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There will be pain and discomfort irregardless.
2006-10-21 17:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW OLD ARE YOU????? plese answer me and i will answer every question!! what is you age?
2006-10-21 17:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO!
2006-10-21 17:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by monica d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋