Ok so I have this cousin who is like 14 and he has this girlfriend who is like 12 his mom or our nana does not like her they say he is on the phone with her 24 7 and that she is really controling(I think) they say he needs to find something else to do or something he says he is in love with her that he will fail the 8th grade again and by that time they will both be in the same grade which we think is what he wants anyway I gave him my e-mail so maybe I could talk to him but I'm not sure what to say to him thats why I need some advice
2006-10-21 17:11:19 · 6 answers · asked by Elizabeth H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't understand how his parents are allowing him to date a 12 year old child! She isn't even a teenager yet! Besides, he is way too young to be saying he is in love. This relationship should be nipped in the bud immediately.
2006-10-21 17:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isnt much you can say to him that will make him understand. I have a 13 y/o brother who is going thru the same thing. I would say listen to what he has to say, there may be an underlying reason that he is acting this way.
2006-10-22 00:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by jrseeg1rl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not let him experience the pain and confusion he'll have when the whole thing blows up in his face, kind of what happened to us when we were young and stupid.
2006-10-22 00:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 12 yr old cant control a 14 yr old, if she does its becasue he wants to let her. just let them be kids, it wont last long i promise
2006-10-22 00:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your cousin to study in school because girls don't like losers.
2006-10-22 00:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he alredy failed that is a being using oxygen, what a waste
2006-10-22 00:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋