what if u dont wanna get over it.... cuz it comes back to yr mind again n again n again n u think u can NEVER FORGET him.........
help me from this situation...
2006-10-21 16:57:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It goes deeper than the mind but the heart can recap suppressed thoughts of the Good, Bad, and Ugly of that relationship. Other things like a sense of emptiness can set in if you do not treat it, or yourself, right. I am not saying to break all ties to him/her, and destroy your house because it reminds you of them. I'm saying that you need to fill your thoughts and emotions with something different, something new, better or worse, anything can tip the scale in your favor. And most of all, make the best out of what you do, becuase once it's done, there's no going back to correct wrong, never worry on the past, forge for the future.
2006-10-21 17:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by John A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite human. There is nothing unnatural about it. The more you try to forget, more and more you will remember. If you really want to forget engross yourself in some other activity. One tends to remember only when one is idle.
2006-10-22 00:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me girl,....... you will eventually get over him. Dont get me wrong it may take awhile but it will happen. You know why?..... because you will eventually get sick and tired of crying and thinking about him, and you will want to find someone new. And then you will. So cry all the tears yopu need to, get them all out. Trust me you wont feel this way forever.
2006-10-22 00:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by Candace T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When u think its over'....... and it is actually not.......It is NOT over!
He is NOT around you but he is still within you.If you have played your part in love, right why should you forget him?
I know its painful, but I can assure you only very few in true love have this pain. I tell you it is good to be with this feeling (and I am loving it)!
2006-10-22 00:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably never will forget them but in time you'll think of them less.
2006-10-22 04:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this can be either negative or positive.......... The best way is to tell a close friend who can be trusted upon and can understand the felling and emotions of you.That is the person you can trust upon and tell him/her about it.
2006-10-22 05:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by anant m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you meet someone else watch how fast you do get over him.
2006-10-22 00:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't forget about it...ever. every little thing will remind you of him or whatever it is. occupy yourself. find someone else.
2006-10-22 00:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can..its all about mindset...set your mind its over..very hard at first but you will eventually accept it... worked for me
2006-10-22 00:00:03 · answer #9 · answered by iris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TIME heals everything....so give it some time
2006-10-22 00:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by xoxcpxox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋