I feel bad when i hang out with this guy, he doesnt say anything he's really sweet. He's tall and skinny and im two inches shorter htan him but a bit chunky now..
i told myself that i wouldnt see him till i lost weight. but i miss him... i dont know what i should do.. im not even successful in dieting now.. what should i do?
any dieting tips as well?
2006-10-21 16:56:59 · 29 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it doesn't bother him, why is it bothering you? Just be happy being yourself. Your the only one who can and you do it so well. If your weight ever is an issue with him, screw him I don't care how sweet he is. If YOU want to loose a few pounds for your health, then eat fruits that are acidic before your meals. It makes you feel full so you don't really have to diet you get to eat what you want. Just fruit, that's all.
2006-10-21 17:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No way! When I first met my husband I was a size 5. I thought I looked really good. After we married I gained 25 pounds and went up to a 10. I started a diet because I thought he wouldn't like me like I was. He finally confessed that when he first met me it was my mind and my personality that attracted him and that he thought I looked unhealthy at the time. He admitted that I was much more fun to be with when I quit worrying about my weight and started enjoying going out to eat, going to parties, etc. Moral of the story - only shallow people prefer perfect bodies over people who are fun to be with!.
p.s. My husband is 6' 1" and I am 5' 2".
2006-10-22 00:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hanging out, falling in love or whatever it is....friends or lovers???? hey if you like someone to be a friend the least you don't have to change yourself...they should accept you for what ever you are, that is a true friend. being a little bit chunky is not a reason to feel that way. don't make yourself feel bad about it, enjoy life and be with someone that will accept you for what you are it is not the physical looks that is important because that will fade it will Be what is inside of you.....that speaks louder than what you think....and by being what you truly are you will attract more people..
2006-10-22 00:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by pinky c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only one you should ever diet for is yourself. If he likes you, he will like you no matter how much you weigh. If you'd like to lose weight for yourself, there are lots of plans you can try, just be careful to eat a balanced diet and not cut too severely. You can reward yourself with little stuff but don't use another person as a punishment or reward.
2006-10-22 00:01:42 · answer #4 · answered by Kuji 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should only diet for you. Don't bother if it's only to impress a guy. But if you're serious about it, here's a diet that helped me lose five pounds:
1. Breakfast: Small bowl Special K Vanilla almond cereal or toast with light margarine, two slices mozzarella or cheddar cheese, juice or water.
2. Mid-morning snack: Two small cookies (chewy Chips Ahoy or Oreos), grapes.
3. Lunch: Low-fat vanilla yogurt, one banana.
4. Afternoon snack: Green apple.
5. Dinner: Medium portion of meat, small salad with cheese, one small serving of bread.
6. Evening snack: Fruit and/or low-cal chocolate mousse, apple-cinnamon herbal tea.
Tips: No extra snacking, no taking tastes from someone else's food, definitely no going to McDonald's.
2006-10-22 12:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never diet for a guy ...always diet or do self improvment for YOU
Eat smaller portions. Drink lots of water. Increase your activity
cut out fast food. Eat lots of salad. Go on long walks.
Eat off a smaller plate. NEVER go without eating. Eat smaller amounts more often.
2006-10-22 00:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get in shape for you. Trying to change yourself for someone else rarely works. BTW, dieting doesn't work longterm. Adopt a healthy diet and exercise. If you can get a routine going for a few weeks it will become your habit. Like sitting around and getting bigger is a habit. Try to find a activity you like and get your exercise there. Better yet, involve the guy in your activities. I met my wife at our gym.
2006-10-22 00:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by ontopofoldsmokie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well believe it or not but my wife and i asked each other to lose weight i was 255 i did not give up alot of food i just changed it i eat more wheat and i drink more water i cut my meals in half and i did not cheat and i walked everyday for about an hr. or so and i did alot of push ups and sit ups i now am at 175 .... i did this because i want to look my best for my wife you do in your heart you feel is right ... you can do it good luck
2006-10-22 00:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by dogfaceboy626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Diet for yourself and cut out the carbs for the fastest and safest loss. Why stay away from him... if he's not saying anything. He's probably wondering what HE did wrong. Grass is always greener on the other side... He probably wishes he could gain weight... And, there are men out there who like a girl with a few extra pounds... bones are for burying Meat's for eatin'
Good Luck!
2006-10-22 00:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by dena_lisa 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just be yourself, if hes not going to like you on a count of afew extra pounds than he is a loser anyway. I mean what would happen in the long run when you got older and pregnant. He cant expect you to be a model.
2006-10-21 23:58:52 · answer #10 · answered by fireeyedmaiden 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋