The relationship has been on for two years as of last month. He can't have a future with me because of religion/culture/gel preference...some stupid excuse. He is constantly demanding a threesome when I made it clear before that i'm not interested. Obviously he needs to get kicked to the curb, but how the hell do I do it? I feel like dumping him will flush those two years down the john. What would you do?
2006-10-21 16:47:25 · 11 answers · asked by Stacey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know how you feel. It's like...you made such a big investment in the person and now you have to start all over. It's hard I know.
There's a saying about firing a person ...that you'll never regret firing someone, you only regret not firing him sooner. It's the same thing here.
Break up with him, take a breath, learn some lessons, and then apply them to choosing a better person in the future.
2006-10-21 16:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to flush two more years down the toilet?You are unhappy and he sounds like a jerk. Just do it. Don't think about it. Just say it's over and walk away, never looking back. Somewhere in this world there is a guy that is right for you. Don't you want to feel special and be respected? It's time to move on. Take care and good luck.
2006-10-21 16:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better to flush now than wait another 5, 10, 15 years. You deserve better. everyone needs love not excuses.
2006-10-21 16:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by ebuh64j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to finish with him,instead, to have a miserable life with him forever.If he want threesome,he showed you: that he does not love, and does not respect you indeed.God will give you a man who will love you indeed.Think good,please.God bless you every day and help you to solve this situation in the best way for you and your future.Good luck.
2006-10-21 16:59:03 · answer #4 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha, I would just walk away. Why spend another year arguing about threesome and culture, when you can walk away and start new again? I would take that chance because I am still young and I don't want to live my life as miserable crap. I want to be happy as I can. Don't you?
2006-10-21 16:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, dont think of it as wasting two years but it is the natural outcome of the relationship. 2 years is how long it is supposed to last and thats it. second, if you know it is over then end it. tell him face to face that you no longer want to be in a relationship with him and you are leaving/breaking up with him. answer his questions honestly but dont take any crap from him. that is your decision to end it and that is how it will be. be firm and dont give in to him. good luck
2006-10-21 16:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by luxyfoxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chalk them 2 years up for experience...sound like he thinks with the wronge head lol...he does not want anything but sex..just tell him you want sex with a future so ther for he has to go..
2006-10-21 16:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by pantherblack05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell him, "I am dumping you because I deserve better. See ya!" He is a loser and you shouldn't feel guilty about dumping him.
2006-10-21 16:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw him and move on if he wants a threesome that means that he wants to have sex with another girl without the gulit of cheating on you
2006-10-21 16:52:22 · answer #9 · answered by diceforce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick his butt to the curb, he obviously doesn't want to be with you, it's time to move on to someone who deserves you.
2006-10-21 16:52:05 · answer #10 · answered by angel_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋