Me and my ex was in an on and off relationship.We were together for a year and 6 months.He always goes through troubles, but this time it was even worse and I knew it had to be more.He went around tellin people that we weren't together and he didn't tell me.I found out why, because he was plannin' on usin' me.He said he couldn't talk because of all the drama.I saw him laughin and talkin with his friends.So I was very upset and broke it off. He was mad, but I didn't care.Then the next day I saw him with this girl and they looked so happy.I felt sad, because I miss that.I don't want another relationship, because they all go wrong.I think I pick the wrong ones.So I gave up, but I like a few people and I know of a few who like me.When they tell me, I push them away.I want another relationship, but I just don't want to get hurt any more.I have a feeling that the next one will hurt me when I fall in love.I'm not completely stupid, because I'm stayin' a virgin till I'm married.What to do?
2006-10-21 16:38:50 · 6 answers · asked by Ladybug 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't judge all men based on one azz hole. He played with you because he wanted to be your first and he wasn't. You did not allow him to take that away from you. He did not love you because he already had someone on the side. There is no need to feel sad because it is his lost. You need to pick your head and heart up off the floor and be proud that you did not give into the drama. You said that the relationship was on and off, that was due to him not getting any sex from you. He would break up when he wanted to be with someone else then come back to you thinking you would give it up. Gurl, hold your virginity as long as you want to, itis special and you hav something to cherish when you get married. There is plenty ofnicemen who will be willing to wait on that diamond,lol. God bless you. Love yourself.
2006-10-21 16:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by michellej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with even the most abusive person makes a person feel sad and afraid. The sadness may come form your hopes of a good relationship didn't come true. A lot of people don't feel comfortable being alone. And there is the fear that the next person may be even worse than the person you are breaking up with. You have to get to know a person all over again.
However, don't feel discourage about eventually dating again. Spend some time alone learning to enjoy yourself and to develop trust again.
2006-10-21 23:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn girl your just like me and i know what your going through this happen to me in the 6th grade and please dont give up there is no point of give up if people like you then be with them dont worry abut getting hurt and stuff worry that the next guy you go wit sill actually make you a nice hot bath i mean just dont give up and dont end up like me cuz it will hurt you for life too and its still hurting talking about it a lot and you know its hurts well anyways just to forget some one try to go with other guys and try new things like go out to the mall or clubs etc. or hang outs that should cheer you up a lot
2006-10-21 23:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had a wart removed...I was sad...yet happy.
2006-10-21 23:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by moving on 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals all wounds. be glad you got out in time
2006-10-21 23:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont feel sad if thats how he treated you!
2006-10-21 23:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by Munkyluva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋