i just asked this girl out and she said she doesnt kno her answer yet and she said but there is always other girls....now i think she said no. i gained soo much confidence and now its slowly decreasing and im terrified of that no that might come out. i mean i talk to her almost everyday...what is the answer gonna be???
2006-10-21 16:34:39 · 18 answers · asked by KRAYZIEBONE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry hon, but that sure sounds like a definite no to me. If she really did want to go out with you, she would have said yes right away without any hesitation, and she definitely wouldn't have mentioned other girls if she wanted you for herself. You're better off finding someone else.
2006-10-21 16:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anna S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever the answer, you should be reserved about the kind of relationship you can have with a person that isn't 100% sure they want to be with you. Not saying it can't happen, but unlikely. If you're young and this is just a social thing, move on and don't sweat it. It's just a bump in the road, and we've all had them.
2006-10-21 23:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by lilwalker02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her answer is no. She doesn't want to tell you no, but if she meant yes then she would have meant yes.
But let's suppose that she's on the fence or is shy. What you should do is get another girl to go out with. Then the first girl will either a. Do nothing (and you'll know her answer is 'no') or b. Be very jealous and will really want you. Then she will belong to you.
2006-10-21 23:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is going to say no.. It is really great that you have built up your confidence and don't let this knock back hurt you. just bounce back and try again with a different girl... it happens to all of us, and it sucks at the time. She's not the one for you, you'll do OK ..good luck
2006-10-21 23:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by cino_bean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may just need a day or two to think, she may not want to risk loosing a good friend by officaly being labeled your girl. just give her some time, it will all work out, dont worry even if the awnser is to not accept the girlfriend label yall will always have a good friendship.
just remember to breathe. lol
2006-10-21 23:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by SAM S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip man.. pull it together. It is just a girl. They become less and less important as time wears on. Girls like guys with confidence, and somehow I'm gathering that's not you right now. Suck it up be a man, and don't worry about her.
2006-10-21 23:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by Wasting Time 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is no. She is just trying to be nice. If she can't tell you no to your face in a kind way instead of beating around the bush, then forget about her. You can do better than that.
2006-10-21 23:36:34 · answer #7 · answered by rwwebber4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the wording, I would have to guess that you are a teenager. Take it easy, if something is to be, it will be. Should you force it to happen neither of you will be happy in the long run. I wish nothing but the best of luck.
2006-10-21 23:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by itsa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a girl, and i have told some one i had to think, it could be a yes, shes just saying, she needs time to think, but that there are other girls avalible
it could be a yes
dont rush things, politely and slowly ask her
respect her decision
if its a no ask to be friends.
2006-10-21 23:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by Munkyluva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i obviously don't know for sure, but from what u said it seems like a no since she said the "there are other girls" thing. try not to talk to her until she answers (i mean don't go a year without talking to her)
2006-10-21 23:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋