2006-10-21 16:18:53 · 25 answers · asked by F.Y.I. 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
If you don't want to, than you shouldn't. Trust me, sex is very overrated and if that is the only thing he wants then he's not worth doing it with.
Be true to yourself, not to what everyone or anyone else is doing because you are the one who has to live with the consequences whether they be good or bad.
I would wait until your married but that's just my opinion. It's all games until then.
2006-10-21 16:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by Bruthaman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I am guessing you are young. Is this your first serious boyfriend, and would you be losing your virginity to him? If so, and if you are not completely sure that this is what you want to do, then wait. The very best situation for sexual relations is when you feel a deep emotional and spiritual bond with your partner first; then the physical part is a natural extension of your relationship, and it will deepen the bond between the two of you. But trust your gut instinct - if there is a part of you that is saying no, then wait until everything feels right. And - as unromantic as it may sound - do take precautions to prevent pregnancy and the spread of sexually transmitted diseases when the time is right.
2006-10-21 23:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by sonomanona 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably want to "do it" because your boyfriend really wants to "do it". The fact is that most guys your age are really bad at "it", and you are not going to get that much out of "it". I rushed into "it" when I was 15, because I was curious more than anything else. The boy that I thought I loved bragged to his friends. Afterward I felt used and ashamed. The guys at school treated me like a slut, and I figured they were right. Trust me when I tell you that "it" is so worth waiting for, and you have plenty of time.
2006-10-21 23:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sister Christian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT DO IT.
i dated my boyfriend for 6 months, and then he broke up with me. i soon found out from a friend of his that the reason he broke up with me was because i wouldnt have sex with him. if you love each other you can both wait.
im 17 years old, not some 40 year old girl trying to create worldy selebacy, so trust me when i say this. your first time will hurt, it wont be fun until a couple more times after, and its not worth losing your innocence to somebody you wont be with in another couple months.
2006-10-21 23:28:17 · answer #4 · answered by browneyesoxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u say u really wanna 'do it' with ur boyfriend sounds like u havent made up ur mind fully as yet girl if u havent then dont do it.If u r gonna do it then regret it then just wait i always say waiting enhances the pleasure.If ur boyfriend is really worth it then he'll be ok with ur decision to wait.When u r fully sure u wont question it ul just do it
Good luck
2006-10-21 23:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're having doubts which it looks like you are..dont do it..you'll end up regreting it in the long run..6 month is too short anyway especially if your the type to claim your in love and make it all special
2006-10-21 23:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by Leslie V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Do It! I lost my virginity (not sure if you're a virgin or not) when I was 18 and was dating the love of my life for 2 years and I still regret it. It brought so many emotions and issues into our relationship and now I wish I would've waited until I was married. People take sex way too lightly now and since you are hesitant(the part where you said "but I also don't,") I say...Don't Do It!
2006-10-21 23:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kelli L 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First you should not feel conflicted.You and you alone must decide if your ready to have sex and is he really worth having sex with for the first time.Alot of girls feel alot of pressure to have sex that first time and end up hurt.In the end this decision really only matters to you as your the one that lives with it.Good luck
2006-10-21 23:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by royalpalaceofhell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in doubt , then don't and ask your self this. If something goes wrong and you end up pregnant are you ready to be a parent? committing to having sex is committing to the responsibilities that go with it, and after he gets it he will probably leave you
2006-10-21 23:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're not completely sure, don't do it. my first time i wasn't sure, i mean i loved my boyfriend (the one i have now, going on a year and half) but me not being sure almost led to us breaking up. I didnt know how to handle sex because i was not yet mature enough. he got mad after like the 4th time we had it. i cried and cried. dont do it if you're not sure, believe me, its not worth it. hope this helps! :D
2006-10-21 23:28:00 · answer #10 · answered by ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋