Hes only 16 months is he old enough to spank lightly?I know he knows when hes not supoused to do something,he even tries to hide from me to get away with things.
2006-10-21 16:10:36 · 14 answers · asked by Erica B 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Yes you can spank him, there's nothing wrong with that. When he does it, tap him on the butt and tell him NO. BE FIRM, LET HIM KNOW YOU MEAN IT! Remember, he's at the age of exploring and developing his personality. Allow him to express himself but at the same time be firm and allow balance with him.
It's good you are recognizing this and willing to discipline him when he has tantrums. Just be consistent, and don't allow it to progress!
Most children with behavior problems begin at an early age. Parents don't do anything until it's too late.
One other thing. Your son is not 6 months old..He's 16months old, soon to be 2 years old. Kids understand more than what we give them credit for.
2006-10-21 16:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshinz 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Some tantrums can and should be ignored. Seriously, this will not harm him, and since tantrums are best for getting attention... if you give the child no attention, then what good is he getting from the fit?? Other tantrums, just remove him from the room, put in time out chair or bed room. Stay consistent.
If he creates a great deal of attention (even getting spanked) these tantrums will interrupt your life for many more years. Good Luck, My thoughts are with you.
Mostly this is just one of the many stages he will go through wil learning about his world, self and family.
2006-10-21 16:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by 4mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you beleive in spanking? If so, yes, he is quite old enough. However, I do not beleive in spankings, thus I am consistent... meaning I tell my son "No" the first time. If he doesn't listen, I get up and pull him away. Now we may stand there for an hour with him doing something he is not supposed to and me pulling him away, but he does learn from it. Sometimes, I just distract my son with something more interesting. But if it turns into a kicking screaming tantrum, put your child somewhere that he will not hurt himself or others (his crib maybe) and let him throw it. Use basic words with him and the same words each and every time. He will soon associate them with his bad behavior. I tell my son, "no, this is unacceptable". Good luck!
2006-10-21 16:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by tiyona17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, at 16 months he does not understand a spanking and taking away toys! The best way to deal with a tantrum is to completely ignore him. When he starts screaming and flinging himself to the floor...walk away. Always keep him in your sight thought so he doesn't hurt himself. He will realize soon enough that he doesn't have an audience and it won't be so much fun!
2006-10-21 16:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Often children try to put on a tantrum show for attention. As hard as it is, it's best to ignore them or send them somewhere where they can have their tantrum without others watching or witnessing the antics. It may take awhile, but once the child finds they can't get anywhere with a tantrum, hopefully they will learn and stop. I know it sounds easier said then done. Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-21 16:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by gideon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't see anything wrong with giving your son a firm "pop" or two on his diapered bottom, just to send him a message. Maybe after his mild spanking, a straightened and pointed finger in his direction to further mark your intentions of your displeasure towards his behaviour, all while scolding him with a few words of wisdom.
Maybe something to the effect of, "no, we don't act like that in this house". Or, "when you act like that mommy will spank you". Something that he can relate to, just to let him know that change is needed on his part. Yes he is young, but not too young.
2006-10-21 16:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by Frugalmom 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
All kids are gonna throw tantrums that is what they do and maybe his trying to get your attention thats probably why he does the things he do... you should just put him in time out for alittle bit!!! :)
good luck!!!
2006-10-21 16:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by shorty_2_us 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know what,he need love give him big hugs and kisses he will stop it automatically..this is a age where he is trying to get your love and attension whenever he throw tantrum give him love and say loudly stop...and dont ever ever ever ever spank a kid you dont know how bad it is..
2006-10-21 22:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by cool k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is. He is getting to an age where he is beginning to understand the things that you are saying and to begin to learn that is bad behavior has consequences.You can also puthim in his room and let him throw his tantrums by hisself.
2006-10-21 16:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
kelley is absolutly right. he will not understand. whatever attention you give him is a type of reinforcement. if his tantrums get no attention at all he'll have to find another way to express himself.
2006-10-21 16:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by anniee233 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋