For All The Broken Hearted...?

Question

Have You Ever Had Your Heart Broken By A Girl Or A Guy... And If You're Willing To Share Please Do... Because I Can Relate...

Answer 1

I dated a guy for 5 years, we were in college. Four years into our relationship I had graduated and was working, he was still a student. He had asked me to not move away after I graduated so we could be together, I gave up certain oppertunities to be with him, and it was hard for me. We were going through some difficult times. So four years in he tells me that he doesn't feel I am commited enough, wants me to work on being a serious girlfriend. He made me feel like I wasn't putting any effort in our relationship, he knew I had trust issues from my childhood and asked me to trust him and to commit to him. He said when he graduated and didn't have to study all the time we could focus together on our future. It took a long time but I slowly opened up and focused on Us and Our Future as a Couple. Because he asked me to.
He graduates from college and dumps me a week later. I asked him why and he finally admited it was because I was the only person he had ever slept with or dated, which was news to me. He needed to go out and experience other girls but wanted to get back together in a year and get married. I asked him how long he had felt this way and he said it had been about a year (the time he asked me to commit).
I understand his need to experience others, but I call him a coward for not breaking up with me at the time (he won't admit that because of school he would have been too busy to find anyone else to sleep with and just kept me around USING GUILT!) And to even mention marriage, lets just say that that all happened over 2 years ago and I am now with the love of my life (not him!) and I don't think he has gotten ANY.
Sometimes your heart has to be broken but the person that does it DOES NOT need to play mind games with you!

Answer 2

yes i have. if u cant relate maybe this will make you understand. for that its gonna be long and broken senteces.

When i was in the 6th grade my dad hooked up with a lady, she had two daughters. I spent alot of time with her oldest, we got along so well and did everything together,she was my best friend. Eventualy my dad and her mom broke up and we went our way. 2 years later they came back into my life, they needed a place to say and we wouldnt say no. The moment i saw her daughter again it was immediate attraction on behalf of both of us.we secretly intament together and it went on for about a year and a half, eventualy her mom found out, days later they moved. we we're in love to say the least and i held on till things cooled down. More time went by and she came into my life once again, but i realized she had met someone. It was hard to accept but as soon as i do that she ends up back in my arms. It felt great, we didnt have to hide it anymore. It feels really good to fully trust someone the way i trusted her.. We all moved back in together, it was financualy the smart thing to do. Anyway that winter she and her sister took a trip up to utah were there aunt lives. She comes back and tells me that she had an apiphany which was that we were going nowhere and that i was a loser. If that wasnt bad enough i found out that her aunt is rich and they lived in luxary all week. It was like i wasnt good enough for her anymore. And just like that the world fell from underneath me, everything we risked and all the time we spent together was gone in a second. Now im stuck with memories of someone i knew, After half my life she just walked away.
THE END
Like i said, its broken. but if you understand then i have done what you asked. Its all real, I wish it wasnt but things happen for a reason.

Answer 3

Yeah, I've been like this off, and on for a year and a half now.
The most recent, was yesterday. I had a crush on this guy for about three months, and then I finally got the courage to talk to him. I only talked to him twice, then I was forced by my family to ask him to a movie I was going to see with my brother, aunt, and uncle. And he never said anything about it. I felt horrible, and concluded that he didn't like me.

Then last week, at homecoming, a s l u t who likes to call herself my best friend, told me to go ask him to dance. I didn't, but I was forcd to dance with him anyway. So I thought I would have a bit of a chance this time, and for a while, I thought he liked me, but then I realized it yesterday night, after a football game, that he didn't like me. the slut tricked me, and now she's hanging all over him.

I try not to blame him, but I can't really help it, he didn't tell me that he didn't like me. And she kept hanging over him. So I'm extremely mad, and depressed. Sometimes I wonder if love's worth it anymore. I hear marrage isn't what I think it is, and I always get shot down.

Thx so much for listening, I feel sort of better.

Answer 4

Yes I have - by both. If you live long enough and love long enough you are bound to get your heart broken. When I first accepted myself as a lesbian I naively thought that women would naturally treat another woman better because she would understand another woman's needs better. Wrong! If a person (no matter the gender) is a liar, a cheat and not to be trusted, that is just who they are.

I also think we attract to ourselves the people we need at the time in order to learn a particular lesson. I used to constantly put my mate's needs before my own and consequently I attracted both men and women who took advantage of me. When I learned to take care of myself and value my needs on an equal level with that of my partner/lover I attracted someone who knew how to give as well as receive.

Answer 5

yes my ex broke my heart when he betrayed me with a co worker,forgiveness was not asked for, no remorse was shown,so there was no where i could go with the relationship but out the door. when i attempted to win back his heart he laughed and would not even give me a chance. but that day i learned that he wasn't who i thought he was,and that this was the true him, and to avoid anymore pain i filed for divorce and moved on, there are times i still think of how he handled it, and still at times i feel badly even after 3 years. but that day he talked to me so badly i discovered his true character, and saw that this was not the man i wanted to spend anymore time with.

Answer 6

Yes after I got divorced ...I met someone so wonderful and he was going through a divorce too ....I got so attached and he left .he had so much pain too ...you know still hurts ...but life it is teaching me to live and confront life ...it is so hard and the days were really sad ...sometimes they are...but I am discovering every day that There's reason why things happen and life it is going to show me that someone else will come my way ....but I must learn how to be alone first ...how to be happy bymyself and then find someone...to love .....someone told me that while you are crying for someone ....someone else it is wishing to have you

Answer 7

I had a die hard crush on this guy in my freshman year of HS and what happened was that I overheard him talking to some of his friends and he said that he had a crush for one of my old classmates from grade school. I was heartbroken for the rest of the day.