welll,to start off i have been sexually active going on two years,but not with boys my age.like from 20-24.i have a very fully develop mind and body and basically i handle myself as an adult.My recent bf is 24(i told him i was 16) and we have been with each other for 4 months.i have been through alot of situations that a "15" year old would'nt imagine going through,and my mom does'nt even know half of the stuff.(we dnt get along at all)am i moving too fast?what should i do?
2006-10-21 15:56:10 · 14 answers · asked by angelica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are definitely too young for this. You shouldn't be having sex at all and especially not with older men. they are just using you. Find an older female friend or relative to talk to.
2006-10-21 15:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun ur not the only on,i've ben handling myself as well like an adult,and been through soo many things no girl my age should be going through.Im 14 years old and i've done alot of the things u have as well,but u need to put an end to it.Its not good u could get him in trouble,and u could end up getting pregnant and ur soo young.Atleast go with sum 1 ur age but at the same time i dont blame u older guys are better.lol.But seriously..u need to put an end to that..this is coming from a 14 year old so i completely understand...if u wanna chat or need any more advice ....then just contact me.My adress is ramlover_92@yahoo.com
2006-10-22 02:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by ramlover_92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are doing is the right thing for you, maybe not the law, but men mature much slower than you girls, you should be with someone even older, say 10 years, or more...then you are on the same maturity level...but hold off until your 18....then find a guy around 30, just be careful....until your 18,
2006-10-21 23:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course your moving too fast. These guys are raping you as the law would see it. Just because you handle yourself like an adult do you realize what could happen if these guys found out you were only a kid? They could really hurt you. And to think if you got pregnant or something, you and them would be in big time trouble.
2006-10-21 23:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl u are moving way tooo fast... first of all what does a 24 yr old man really doing with a "16" yr old.... slow down... trust me dont be in a hurry to grow up... You wanna have a baby? u need to slow down.... all this stuff will be there when u get older... u might wanna talk to your mom or someone older than u that u can confide in ( Sister, Cousin, AUnt, Friend) Be careful cause men aint **** lol
2006-10-21 23:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by iladelfbbygrl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whoa ...Yes you are moving way too fast. First any guy in his 20's that goes for a 15 year old should be in jail.They are not a thing but LOSERS. I am sure you think you are mature enough to handle things , but things are get bad fast. What if you get pregnant or get HIV from one of these losers. Please, respect yourself I know you must be going through some tough times and I know parents can be hard to deal with but please,please, slow down.
2006-10-21 23:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by LIly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are under age then you are putting your "BOYFRIENDS" in for a long prison term because there is no such thing as consensual sex for a girl that young. If they are over 17 then they are considered at the age of consent and at 20 prison is for sure. They are stupid for taking a chance like that
2006-10-21 23:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jack C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are moving too fast. I would talk to a counselor or a trusted family member. A 24 year old who thinks he is dating a 16 year old is a creep. Find a nice guy.
2006-10-21 22:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by hoodoowoman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are moving to fast. The only thing that a 24 year old is going to want from someone your age is sex. You deserve better.
2006-10-21 22:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your way too young! Your missing all the stuff 15 year old should do. There is plenty of time for that stuff when you get older. Go out and play with your friends or you will regret it when you get older.
2006-10-21 23:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by O'dette 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋