There was a time when I thought I was in love. I had liked him for 2 years and then realized I was in love with him. This went on for a total of 2 more years. When I realized that he would never love me back, I moved on. He got a girlfriend, and I got a boyfriend. I dated the guy for two months, and started to get attached. Then we broke up . I started developing feelings for someone else about six months later, only to have him fall for my best friend instead.
So my question is, how do you find someone worth while, and make the relationship last? How do you find your soul mate? How do you fall in love? And is it that important?
2006-10-21 15:46:24 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Soul Mates are great if you want to cry in your beer for years to come.
Good relationships are built from the ground up.
'True Love' is a myth perpetuated by jewelers and romance publishers. It's merely a seratonin rush that lasts a few months. When it's done, you'd better have a good foundation or it's all coming down.
2006-10-21 15:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by Horsmn4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to find someone that you can spend everyday with and will LOVE you back no matter what. If you want to make the relationship last, you both need to work on it and put some effort into it.
Soul mate... you will know when the time comes
fall in love.... again that all depends on the other person and the connection you make with them
I feel it is important because if you truely think that you will want to stay with him for the rest of your life, you better make sure he feels the same way about you
2006-10-21 22:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe God puts us together with our soul mates, if, it is his will. You can meet at the most unexpected time but yet feel like you have known each other for ever. It is good. To some people, having a soul mate is very important. I recommend, having a talk with God, ask for his help and put your concerns aside and trust in his answer.
2006-10-21 23:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by JAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry , "love" like many other concepts was invented by males and only a male human can truly understand it , what you do is that you associate your feelings with the word , which is called a corruption of the word
2006-10-21 22:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant tell the frogs from the prince remember..but as you go thru the frogs it makes you really appreciate the prince when he finally shows up..enough warts and you learn lots of life lessons that will help later on
2006-10-21 22:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
self-development. Its important to develop as a person yes.
2006-10-21 22:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Cules 4 life: ASHKON IS BACK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just IM'd me one day out of the blue... and I just knew.
2006-10-21 22:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋